Jaderune Pen Pals

Relationship problems arise when (generally) a third party enters the scene. I am fully aware of one mixed marriage where a Philippine male, who apparently had a relationship in the past with the (now) married Filippina, visited her (she was married to a male of the country of her new nationality) a...

cutegen wrote: So when sex does come up (the relationship) it is that much better. (In brackets my words). Sex is that integral act of a relationship which should bond together the male and female as they share those wonderful intimate moments in that loving - - - ? Yes, sex can soon wane but that c...

Be honest! Keep yourself clean and do not allow yourself to two time your male concert.

Don't play mind games! Be sincere in every thing you say and communicate sincerely with your male penfriend. Don't lie or play games.

Communicate, communicate, communicate!

>"As far as courting is concerned, Filipinas are expected to be pakipot (playing hard to get) because it is seen as an appropriate behavior in a courtship dance.<" This hard to get can carry into marriage (MIND GAMES) and hence put a strain on the marriage. I have seen many mixed marriages...

About half of these points are correct. Other points are a matter of subject observations.

It would have been better if correct English had been used or even British slang "fellows" instead
of that most horrible word used here to describe males.