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Breaking-up

Postby chaychay644 » Sat Aug 01, 2009 4:30 am

Breaking up is perhaps one of the most difficult situations that we may experience. We may have that shuttered dreams with our love ones. Yes, it may even affect our studies, career & outlook in life in the sense that were being affected emotionally.

Having someone such as a friend to confide with what we are undergoing is healthy. It can help us ease the burden and the heartache that we feel. Do not be ashamed to cry in front of your friend to whom you’re confiding too. It’s just normal to cry & it’s not a sign of weakness as what other peoples view it.
In time, you will realize that you’re thankful & lucky enough to know that he/she is not the right person for you. Think positive & engage in different activities to divert your attention instead of thinking of you failed relationship.

Lastly, learn from your experience & move on. Bear in mind that “past is past” you have to forget the past and face the present. Face your new chapter of you’re life positively & with confidence.
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby ms.sin17 » Sat Jan 16, 2010 3:38 am

Yeahh right! what has written abOve is aLL true! i have been thrOugh frOm a tOugh break up this past mOnth and nOw as I decided nOt tO see his prOfile in both his FS and FB i can say that I am mOving fast fOrward.. :) I have read sOmething in a book that yOu must keep away from a persOn that has a situatiOn the same as yOu are facing cause the mOre yOu are with that persOn, the more the feelings will worse. I think if yOu are in the prOcess Of moving on the miscommunication of the person you are breaking up with will help. I am tOuched with the sentence above about
In time, you will realize that you’re thankful & lucky enough to know that he/she is not the right person for you.
Yeah, maybe someday I will finally accept that fact! :)

May God continue His Mercy and Grace upOn us!
GLOry be upOn His name! :D
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby red » Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:21 am

..........such an ouch ouch topic...let it out y'all be okay.. :lol:
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby ms.sin17 » Sun Jan 17, 2010 10:02 am

Yeah! Its gonna be aLright!Let God wOrk in all this things! Breaking up is a very hurting thing when yOu still love that persOn but in mOving On we must be very close unto God and we must have tO think our priorities in life and dO it! :D :D :D

GLOry be upOn the LOrd's Name! :D
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby chaychay644 » Mon Jan 18, 2010 12:39 am

ms.sin17 wrote:Yeah! Its gonna be aLright!Let God wOrk in all this things! Breaking up is a very hurting thing when yOu still love that persOn but in mOving On we must be very close unto God and we must have tO think our priorities in life and dO it! :D :D :D

GLOry be upOn the LOrd's Name! :D


Guidance from our parents also helps..and a lot more w/ prayers..or even confiding to our close friends also plays an important role in moving on..
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby ms.sin17 » Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:17 am

Yes! Confiding tO Our cLOse friends can also play an important role in moving on.. But we must choose the persOn that we are cOnfiding Of because accOrding tO a book that my sister read. We must nOt cOnfide to a persOn that has the same situatiOn as yOu are experiencing because the resuLt will be wOrst rather you must be with thOse persOn that is funny and wherein yOu can laugh. But the best thing tO mOve On is tO pray and kneel befOre Him! He is the key and the OnLy answer!! :D :D
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby crisipicada » Thu Mar 11, 2010 9:45 pm

red wrote:..........such an ouch ouch topic...let it out y'all be okay.. :lol:


Thats true, it is so hurting to break up
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby charrisa_10 » Wed Mar 31, 2010 8:00 am

for me breaking up to the man i love most is just my ever nightmare happening in my whole life...it hurts me so much especially the only reason is not clear enough between us and i already committed so much!!

my whole life is not like before...i only live for no reason!!

even though im not totally recover but i can say that i survive the broke up...hes still in my hearth and mind so bad enough i want to find someone better for me to say that i totally recover!!so bad!!
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby ms.sin17 » Wed Mar 31, 2010 6:02 pm

charrisa_10 wrote:for me breaking up to the man i love most is just my ever nightmare happening in my whole life...it hurts me so much especially the only reason is not clear enough between us and i already committed so much!!

my whole life is not like before...i only live for no reason!!

even though im not totally recover but i can say that i survive the broke up...hes still in my hearth and mind so bad enough i want to find someone better for me to say that i totally recover!!so bad!!


naaah.. its OK, charissa. Time can heal what the past have done in our lives. I have experienced it also but for me, focusing on your life now is the very best thing for you to do to forget about the past. Dont say that you only life for no reason, open up your heart to see the plans of the Lord for you. Do not say that you only live without reason because everyone of us have reasons why me must live out this life. Learn to fight the battle of your life, Charissa.. :P Always pray to God to ask for the guidance that you are needing day by day.. :) Everything`s gonna be OK.. Trust Him.. :) :P
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Re: Breaking-up

Postby purex » Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:44 am

chaychay644 wrote:
ms.sin17 wrote:Yeah! Its gonna be aLright!Let God wOrk in all this things! Breaking up is a very hurting thing when yOu still love that persOn but in mOving On we must be very close unto God and we must have tO think our priorities in life and dO it! :D :D :D

GLOry be upOn the LOrd's Name! :D


Guidance from our parents also helps..and a lot more w/ prayers..or even confiding to our close friends also plays an important role in moving on..


Only times heals :( :(
Wn God knows yor READY 4 D rsponsibility of comitment,He'l reveal D ryt prson undr Hs tym& ryt circumstnces.Wait patiently,Dont waste Ur tym srching& wshing.Grow& b redy &yo'l see.God wl giv U a lov story far betr than U cud ever dreamed
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