LOVE OR LUST?

[lovely_tears8]

As far as i know..,Our world now is having a big changes..I am really wondering why God let this happen,maybe there's a reason.I am really confused about the happenings in our modern world today..i kept asking on myself..why there's some people let change their personality,doing sex transplant nor if they don't like their body..they easily get plastic surgery.They never thought about the result of their doing.And it is a big sin,maybe the lord God never happy seeing people to be like that.I ask myself why they do that..is the cause of all that is Love? Maybe,they just want to be look perfect to their love ones.
BUT THE REAL LOVE is like this:
Love is not selfish,it is know how to let go
Love is understanding
'' ' '' '' ' faith
" " "humble
" " "patience
and real love enjoys and happy even in a small and simple things in life.

It is LOVE:
when you are happy to see her/him everytime.Thinking him/her always.
when you see her beautiful in her simpleness.
when you know how to gave up and sacrifice everything.
when you know how to let go.

It is LUST:
When you only find her attractive,because of the dress and make up she wear.
when you only like to see her as long as you want.
when you only thought about her body.
when you are contented of playing games to anyone.

In this world..only few people have a heart like a gold..and know how to make life worthliving.

[charie]

in our new generation now! you must be looking good to impress someone.. because of your desired of one thing you must be the apple of the eye to everyone.....and that is not by love honestly!

it is by generation changes

why people had a chance to change something in their body which made by god! we are influencing the high tech system now.....
this things are haven't yet before right?

[chaychay644]

As far as i know..,Our world now is having a big changes..I am really wondering why God let this happen,maybe there's a reason.I am really confused about the happenings in our modern world today..i kept asking on myself..why there's some people let change their personality,doing sex transplant nor if they don't like their body..they easily get plastic surgery.

People nowadays changed a lot compared to the past wherein people were just plain and simple. They were contented of what they look and what they have. If we are to compare people in the past and people in the present. It will just cause you headache to think the big difference. But, despite of that, we cannot blame them. Coz they always have reason why they are doing those stuff. Whether, it is for good or not. We cannot stop nor condemn them.

Thats what life is. And it is because of modern technology.

[Floberto]

I know a guy that is a girl now.
He was born as boy, but grew up like a girl, desired to be a girl every moment of his boy life.

[cutegen]

I know a guy that is a girl now.
He was born as boy, but grew up like a girl, desired to be a girl every moment of his boy life.

wow...it really do happen...

[chaychay644]

I know a guy that is a girl now.
He was born as boy, but grew up like a girl, desired to be a girl every moment of his boy life.

Oftentimes, they call themselves as "woman traps in a mans body"

[Edwin]

Having one's body redone is fairly recent and controversial. When I was a little boy, our family went to the Assembly of God church services. Back then, in the late 1940s, when I was up to 5 years old, and the 1950s when I was 6 years old and up, ladies in the church did not wear any makeup. I think it was against the church rules. Even in the 1960s I remember severe criticism for someone connected with the church wearing makeup. Even very much jewelry was frowned upon. I remember going to school in the first couple of grades and being afraid of the adults there because they did wear makeup, and usually the bright red kind. It was shocking to me because none of the ladies in the church circles wore makeup of any kind. I know the women have all gone the other direction now, even in the church, but I still like the more natural look, without makeup, or subdued makeup, long hair, and dresses. I know a lot of the people dye their hair also now. One of our twins dyes her hair, because I think she is going grey. Another twin of my relatives dyes her hair, but like our twins the other one doesn't. Men sometimes like to dye their hair, or wear false hair, but I don't care; mine has just a hint of the color it used to be, which was dark brown to black, and my hair is getting pretty thin in places on top. I still have more hair than my Dad did when he was my age, but when someone takes a picture of me from the back, I see what I normally don't look at, which is some pretty thin hair. I don't think I will color my hair or wear the false stuff. To each his own.

[crisipicada]

I do not know what has really to me at my age 19. I feel happy when i see him. My heart is beating very fast. I believe he is the one. I feel there is a need for me to see him everyday. I feel that love is always hunting me. I feel that my day is incomplete without seeing him. Then due to my love as what I felt, I give myself to him. I got pregnant at my age. I stop studying and did not finish college when i give birth to my eldest son.Actually he is 12 years of age now and a freshman highschool.

I get married, then despite my family was against it. I follow my heart. I did finish college. My husband was so jealous, so strict. I feel i would like be a prisoner at the dangeon. After five years, I have my second baby, a baby girl. I promise to myself to land a job and to make my life free. My girl is now 7 years old. She is in grade one. I am grateful I found a job.

We separate with my husband 6 years ago. I thought he is the one. I thought I love him. I thought love never fades. But that was just carried away with my feelings. All are feelings and that was not love but was a stupidity.

That is the story of what my friend has shared to me. Now, can you tell about this if it is love or lust? Love is forever. In her case, I can say that sex was not in the confinds of marriage thus there is guilt and God was not honored to it. Since it happens without commitment and both was not ready, then it will always ends up into separation. Any words from the members?

[Edwin]

I do not know what has really to me at my age 19. I feel happy when i see him. My heart is beating very fast. I believe he is the one. I feel there is a need for me to see him everyday. I feel that love is always hunting me. I feel that my day is incomplete without seeing him. Then due to my love as what I felt, I give myself to him. I got pregnant at my age. I stop studying and did not finish college when i give birth to my eldest son.Actually he is 12 years of age now and a freshman highschool.

I get married, then despite my family was against it. I follow my heart. I did finish college. My husband was so jealous, so strict. I feel i would like be a prisoner at the dangeon. After five years, I have my second baby, a baby girl. I promise to myself to land a job and to make my life free. My girl is now 7 years old. She is in grade one. I am grateful I found a job.

We separate with my husband 6 years ago. I thought he is the one. I thought I love him. I thought love never fades. But that was just carried away with my feelings. All are feelings and that was not love but was a stupidity.

That is the story of what my friend has shared to me. Now, can you tell about this if it is love or lust? Love is forever. In her case, I can say that sex was not in the confinds of marriage thus there is guilt and God was not honored to it. Since it happens without commitment and both was not ready, then it will always ends up into separation. Any words from the members?

You are so right in your assessment of your friend. She was not in true love, but you are right in that she committed sin, and that brings guilt because God was not honored. Sin always causes separation. Separation from God, and separation from each other. Still with God there is repentance and the forgiveness of sin, but many times we still pay a dear price for our sin even after we receive God's forgiveness, but at least we have the forgiveness of sin and eternal life. Then God will no longer remember our sin against us, and that is very comforting. "All we like sheep have gone astray, we have turned everyone to his own way, and the Lord hath laid on Him (Jesus) the iniquity of us all." Jesus has born our sin, our sickness, and our sorrows!