Yes, Crisi, it is always good to be hopeful. Never lose hope! The right time and the right place has a lot to do with it. We have all heard about people being in the right place at the right time, and everything works out. We have also heard about people being in the wrong place and at the wrong time as well, and that doesn't work very well. Time and chance happens to all of us, and we must be ready to sieze the opportunity, so that it will not be forever lost! Of course we as Children of God, believe that our lives are not guided by chance, but God is in everything that happens, and we follow His leading. Nothing is left to chance but our live and the actions of our lives are ordained of God. We seek God to make the best decisions we are able with His help and guidance.
Keep up the faith and be true is very important. Without faith it is impossible to please God. But, with God all things are possible, even when we don't think so. There is not mountain that we can not climb. We can do it with God's help. Also being true is a very good part of this. Be true with God, be true with yourself, and be true with others. You want the other person to be true, so you be true, and then it will all work out. You have said before, Crisi, "Be the right person, for the other person," and that is very good. God wants us to be genuine, and it is important to others to be genuine; a person who can be trusted, and a person who is what that person claims to be.