Cultivating good attitude and commitment

[Edwin]

Like I said in the other post, I pray while I am walking. We also pray each time we eat, thanking the Lord for the food and asking Him to bless it. There is an older lady who prays while the other person is praying, not so loud to overcome the other prayer, but she just prays right along! It is funny because I do the same thing. If Carol is asking the blessing on the food, I pray for needs that I think of, not loudly, just to myself. If she prays a short prayer, sometimes I find myself praying after she has already said Amen!

[crisipicada]

Having a good attitude is important and it should be based on what your heart says. it is important to have a pure heart and start a good attitude and commitment. I appreciate people who are sincere and honest with their intention.

If you are double minded man and you are not sure of what you are doing, if you are having many doubts on the person and trying to find fault on him or her, it will always end up bad. What i am saying is that it is important to have positive outlook in life. I try to live that way and it really change my life then.

So, if you have positive outlook, it is also a magnet to the one you are communicating with and creates good communication, and it is also true to the opposite. If you will not believe or having doubts, then better to pray to have positive one.

[Edwin]

Mystic, I like your cartoon in your first post here with the guys bailing out the water in the back of the boat, and the guys in the front sitting there saying the hole is not in their end of the boat, but they are all going to go down and drown, if they don't all pitch in to get the water out, and try to get to shore. When we lived an worked at the head of the Lake, and couple of kids who were employees of the lodge, like we were, one a young Mexican girl, a twin, we worked with both these twin sisters different years, and now this twin did live in our town at the bottom of the hill, but we haven't seen her in some time now. Anyway she and this young fellow got really drunk, rented a small boat, went out, got it capsized, and thought they were going to drown, but they were rescued, hanging onto the upside down boat! Anyway there is not substitute for having a good attitude and having commitment in life!

[purex]

My sister Hazel has the attitude that when she is tired she is irritable. On my case, I am irritable when I have my period. I do not know why. I guess women can relate to it. Many people tend to be irritable in any cause, but one thing for sure, when you are lead by the Holy Spirit, they you do not know why you try to be nice even people try to make you angry.

[crisipicada]

Glad to know that my parents did not get annulled on their marriage after separation of 14 years. In fact my father was been looking for my mother when they got separated and been sick for a while after that he died. It is my prayer to be into commitment when the Lord leads me into marriage life.

[angel]

Attitude is everything. Cultivating a positive attitude is the key to peak performance. It is simply a matter of training our minds to perceive things differently--in a positive manner. Right attitude implies harboring positive thoughts, generating positive feelings and following up with positive action.It is up to each individual to choose one set of attitude or the other. The greatest power in the world is the power to 'choose.' We get to 'choose' our attitude. We can choose to be happy, healthy and successful.

[m&m]

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I hope one day I will find a really committed girl, who keeps the family as the most sacred thing, whose love and dedication know no limit.

What are your thoughts?

Sometimes, what the person is looking in life, did not find who like saying "Committed" because the other person is tired and feeling ignored. And also, I learn in life that that it is important to have a reassurance for both that this life is not only about that boat who is sinking, or that boat is always falling on the ground. Because when life is always like that, who wants to live such life?

Just like me, I desire and pray to have a family, in good times and in bad times, I am praying to be ready for it, to settle things before marriage, and be prepared for it because I believe that my future husband deserves to have a happy life together and I do not want to bring problems while I am still single.

For me, I need to surrender to God's will because for me i believe that the Blessing of the Lord it maketh rich and he addeth no sorry with it, Proverbs 10:22. When things go wrong as there is something wrong, then I am not ready for marriage. Because, i just try to bang a stone on my head.

Someday, in God's time, He will reveal to me the right one.

It is important to talk to people at church and how social life is going, andknow someone's spiritual life, and it is not affecting someone's emotion. So be sensitive to the leading of God, and also desire to be the right person, be a blessing and be an encouragement rather than gving problems. That is i am desiring too, to be a blessing, to be an encouragement, to be happy also beecause parents give me such feelings of frustration in life, and I have learned that I cannot delete it in my life, but I can stop it.

Reading that book entitled "I am OK- you are OK' gives me ensights on how to deal life, when your parents or environment give you negative effect on me, and also how to be a good parents too. What a wonderful book so i encourage you all here to read that. I am not yet done but hope i will