she has a bf, and she share to me about them. She told me that she is open to her bf, and told her bf how she feels. she told her bf the womans feeling when she is angry or sad, or feeling bad. She told her bf one time, "Alis ka na" Uwi ka na" in our language, means, "Get out and go home" also she told him, "wag mo nang disturbuhin ang buhay ko" means, "get out of my life, do not disturb me anymore"
But after that, she told her gf, you know, if we feel that way, and we say that things, we feel in our hearts the opposite, she said. I was laughing because that is very true. When we say, do not talk to me anymore it is just saying the opposite. She advised her bf, please try to stay and do not go because we need someone to be with or try to make us feeling good. Women try to tell the guy we do not love him anymore but the opposite is what is true. So guys, you must learn this, and try to understand the woman.
I shared to my officemate that that is very true. and when i let her read and share those devotionals, she told me she will tell her bf about the womans emotion and the need to care for.
Also, she told me, she is so frank to his bf. She said to her bf, "IF you do not like me anymore or you can find someone that would stay with you, then I will let you go, rather than staying with me." wow those are harsh words, i am not like that anyway. but i like what she shared because it makes their relationship stronger. She also told her bf, that she has skin problem so she is sensitive to detergent soap. so when they got married, she might not be able to do the laundry. Am glad they are honest and frank and still accept her by her bf.
its like they cheating on you 
