Yes, Crisi, I have heard that your husband or your wife should be your best friend! In our country, USA, it is very common to have one night stands, where a boy and girl, man and woman will go have sex with each other, and it will just be a one time thing. In a situation like that there is no love involved. The two people may not even like each other. They are definately not friends, and on some occasions they don't even learn each other's names, so they don't really even know who they had sex with! I think it is a sacred thing, and I still think it should not be until marriage, and it should only be within marriage. Crisi, that is very true, friends first, slowly get to know the person, then according to God's will engagement/lovers, then marriage, and you are friends, so that you would never want to hurt that person, you would never want anyone else to hurt that person, and you would want to be loved and cared for by that person, and you would take care of each other forever, caring about what happens to your marriage partner.
