Talks of marriage

[Edwin]

Yes, there are a lot of things to consider when using a fiance visa to bring a young lady to the USA. Also whether it is best to marry in the Philippines then work on bringing her to the USA. Philippine culture and family values need to be considered also, because some families may not allow a young lady to come to the USA with a young man without being married. With others it might be okay. Our friend brought his filipina to the USA then married her within a short period of time. They were both older, he in his 50s and she I think 30s. There are a lot of things to be considered, and a lot of laws to be aware of. I understand it is possible, but all the red tape is not always really easy. I watched a DVD that I thought was a comidy, but it was information, and very informative about the immigration process from several different perspectives. I think it was produced by a law firm that helps deal with those issues. It was interesting for me to watch because of my connections with family and friends in the Philippines.

[Tigger82d]

If and when you do decide to marry her you will have alot of paperwork to go through as edwin mentioned. I have found a great place for information and it's helping me and my fiance do all the paperwork ourselves. Just check out the site for yourself and it will give you heads up on all visas.
(link deleted by management because there are no URL's allowed. If you want the info, then send Tiger a PM)
I hope it's ok to post the link here, I have nothing to do with the site besides joining as a member and getting some great help. Good luck with everything.

[frosty]

I do not plan to bring her to the US... Why is my plan not based on reality? If I do not like her in person, I simply won't propose.

[frosty]

Also before u 2 make such a long time commetment u need to go there and meet her,for in person]

Did you read all of my posts at all? Regardless, this thread is about red flags... I am not asking for a critique of my plans.

[red]

I presume the girl is not just wanting love and children...I think shes in love considering the given facts that the boy is unemployed and only high school graduate(?)cant remember facts, i think im slightly drunk..lol) I knew many women professional have stable jobs and ending up marrying a bummer..handsome bummer. Guy is lucky i guess.

[stanley]

Talks about marriage is a major topic. If things flow on the course what God wants you, that is you have peace of mind, no obstacles, parents agreed, pastors are supportive and prayed for, i believe things will bring the best for both of you. No one knows when someone to get married. Some marry in a little span of time some marry for a long time. It really depends and no one knows.

[crisipicada]

Trying to please others is one way to get failed in any aspect of life. This is one of the most people do and i am one of those. I try to please someone but i realize that to please God in everything you do whatever it is gives glory to God, as i am reminded by the message last sunday that the measure of christian service is doing things to please the ultimate and not man. WE wont get worried if things are doing nonsense but just simply trust Him.

[Edwin]

Trying to please others is one way to get failed in any aspect of life. This is one of the most people do and i am one of those. I try to please someone but i realize that to please God in everything you do whatever it is gives glory to God, as i am reminded by the message last sunday that the measure of christian service is doing things to please the ultimate and not man. WE wont get worried if things are doing nonsense but just simply trust Him.

We can't please everyone, and trying to please God pays off.

[frosty]

She has admitted one of her bad traits is to be a martyr-- always being the sacraficing one. That's Filipino culture though, I think. I'm not sure if I should be posting here? I'm not Christian and she is also not Christian. We are Buddhists.

[frosty]

I'm not a "bummer." I'm not employed because I served in the military... and now I am going to college.