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by **BADDOG2096** » Mon Jul 20, 2009 6:55 am

there are a few things i would like to point out with all the "GUY" stuff posted on here first who ever wrote this is being foolish as its not up to date but very much out dated like 30 or 40 years out of date

to paint all men with this brush is just pain wrong !!!! if these are true then all girls want is your money !!!

and i find this hurtful just as any girl would find it hurtful by me saysing all they want is your money !!!

and if you really think that all good men pray so all bad men dont pray how sad this view must be of MEN

its as bad as saying all girls who ware anything RED are hookers !!! and we all know thats just crazy

if you really use this "" 100 things you have to know about guys "" you should not go near any man at all ever and stay single all the days of your life !!!!

by **cutegen** » Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:46 pm

BADDOG2096 wrote:there are a few things i would like to point out with all the "GUY" stuff posted on here first who ever wrote this is being foolish as its not up to date but very much out dated like 30 or 40 years out of date

to paint all men with this brush is just pain wrong !!!! if these are true then all girls want is your money !!!

and i find this hurtful just as any girl would find it hurtful by me saysing all they want is your money !!!

and if you really think that all good men pray so all bad men dont pray how sad this view must be of MEN

its as bad as saying all girls who ware anything RED are hookers !!! and we all know thats just crazy

if you really use this "" 100 things you have to know about guys "" you should not go near any man at all ever and stay single all the days of your life !!!!

is there any wrong about what i listed? that makes you get angry and think that woman is just aftering money? explain please..just want your idea..lol

by **SeekingMyAsawa** » Sun Jul 26, 2009 3:34 pm

cutegen wrote:someone have send me this ... and i just want to share it to all of the girls who wants to know more about the guy they long for...

I'll address the ones which need the most explanation

FIRST think that a lady has to understand is that MEN ARE STUPID. This is our greatest secret, the one we won't tell you but hope that you figure out. We don't understand your signals sometimes because WE ARE STUPID. We want to make you happy, but don't know what you want because WE ARE STUPID. We will make you cry and not know what we did wrong because WE ARE STUPID.

We need your help to make any relationship work.

99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

More accurately, guys look for certain things in a lady's appearance, and accept the rest to get what they want. This is why you will see some not-too-attractive women who are loved by their guys -- he sees something that others miss.

It's largely ATTITUDE on her part. Robert Heinlein said "A man doesn't demand physical beauty in a woman who makes him feel special -- after a while, he discovers that she IS beautiful -- he just hadn't noticed it at first!" What he meant is that the standard of beauty will change to fit the lady, when the relationship is a good one.

We aren't looking for sexy pics, we are looking for someone who is real.

2. Guys hate flirts.

Yep! Nobody likes to think that he or she is only a temporary interest. Why should I spend my money taking you out for dinner and dancing or a movie, if you are going to be signaling to every other guy out there that you're willing to dump me and go home with them?

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

Sometimes. And we have noticed the same thing from ladies.

4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.

Actually, when a guy says he doesn't understand you, he's asking you to help him figure out what you are thinking. Don't just expect us to know.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

Yep.

7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.

Maybe not ALL of them, but he will overlook many of them, while watching to see if you are getting better or worse.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

True again, IF he is looking for a relationship. If all he wants is sex, he will spend more time looking at your body. If he wants true love, he watches your smiles and your eyes.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

The only exception is that we want to know why he is your EX.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.

OR it means that there is a conflict between what you have asked and something else, and he's trying to resolve it. For instance, you want him to drive you to a baby shower tomorrow, but he's wondering if he will be back from helping his buddy move a refrigerator. YOU have priority, but he's hoping to get both things done.

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

Yes, because MEN ARE STUPID.

24. Guys hate gays!

Guys don't have a problem with people who happen to be gay, but they hate gays who make a big thing about it -- especially those who invade the guy's space -- or who try to fool guys into thinking that they are women.

28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

And he will NEVER understand YOU, no matter how much he listens!

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

Depends on the girl, and how she is using her brain.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

This is not true.

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

Guys are always confused. Women say that they want a guy who is ready to commit, then run away when they find one!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

DON'T BELIEVE IT! Men don't want to be hurt any more than women do. If they start to believe that the girl is enjoying hurting them, making them suffer on purpose, or is playing some kind of game, they will just walk away and look for someone who will treat them better.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. However, if you are the one who rejects him, you will never get him back.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

When a guy in love fails to do for his lady what he thinks she wants him to do, he takes this as a great failure. Be careful not to push him too far away when this happens, or he may just keep going.

63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is
wrong.

Plenty of guys believe in love at first sight.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

. . .or maybe he just didn't get the joke. Watch a Western husband when he is with his Pinay wife and she is laughing with other Pinay friends over some joke in Tagalog. He doesn't know why they are laughing, but will smile anyway rather than look like a fool.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

TRUE!!! We want sweetness, not swearing.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

The two are not related in any way.

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

This is a REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD IDEA. If he suddenly asks you, he may have been wanting to but afraid of being rejected. If you say anything other than YES, he will feel like an idiot and never take the chance with you again.

93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

Again, not necessarily true. He may really mean it, and if you hang up, he will feel stupid and not take another chance.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!

I LOVE it when a girl touches my hair!

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

More or less doesn't matter. All that matters is whether the love is real.

by **cutegen** » Tue Jul 28, 2009 12:48 am

thank you for the comments

- SeekingMyAsawa -

by **charie** » Tue Jul 28, 2009 6:51 am

i honestly agree some......but we got diff culture and believe......

dats looks interesting hehehe!

by **chaychay644** » Sat Aug 01, 2009 3:43 am

Oh, thanks for the hints

Nice post

by **ness** » Thu Sep 17, 2009 10:33 am

cutegen wrote:someone have send me this ... and i just want to share it to all of the girls who wants to know more about the guy they long for...
well..its good to have some ideas about the guys....that's great!!!!!

99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.

5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,
they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad
characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure
have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and
it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don't provoke(irritate) the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and
this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never
mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for
you.

22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the
message clearly.

24. Guys hate gays!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't
mean that the guy likes her.

28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't
let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that
much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to
listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases
you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be
hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they
broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.

**51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting
involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's
too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll
probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying,"Please come and listen to me"

59. Guys don't really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight,
but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is
wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.*

65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be
sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your
advantage.

72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of
rejection.

73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.***********

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic
is about girls.

76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know
them,they'll realize they're wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too
stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is
already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at
fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's
criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance,ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at u and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in
front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him
praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

by **chaychay644** » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:17 pm

SeekingMyAsawa wrote:
cutegen wrote:
FIRST think that a lady has to understand is that MEN ARE STUPID. This is our greatest secret, the one we won't tell you but hope that you figure out. We don't understand your signals sometimes because WE ARE STUPID. We want to make you happy, but don't know what you want because WE ARE STUPID. We will make you cry and not know what we did wrong because WE ARE STUPID.

I laughed so hard when I read this comment :lol:

can't think of any :lol:

hmmmmm....maybe some..definitely not all i am sure of that :roll:

by **wildermess** » Sat Oct 10, 2009 7:05 pm

That stood out to me too. Men are NOT stupid, they built the world! :geek:

Neither men nor woman have a monopoly on stupid or smart. Men and woman just communicate differently, almost like 2 different languages, nothing to do with brains.

OK now SeekingMyAsawa, get a pad and pencil and write "I am not stupid, I am smart", either 100 times or until you believe it, whichever takes longer! :lol: