Don't lose hope dearie... If you can't find it in ages 40 and over, then why not dig down deeper and look for a lady with the ages 20 and above? Don't waste your time thinking about problems... Life is so beautiful to waste on those things...Let your problems, problem you...
Yes, I hear some of these young ladies have their bags packed and are ready to go. Actually that is meant to be joke, and Crisi has the right idea, as this is the place to get to know someone. You can learn what there thinking is, how they feel about things, and if their bags really are packed!