Western Culture

[tom]

Oh yes even women, also. We get nervous when we are so inlove to someone and we cant talk straight infront of our crush

Yeah. Me too. I`m having a big nervous whenever I`m talking to my crush.. I don't know why.. I think its because Im shy talking with him.. hehe

is it accurate to say we are feeling "kinikilig"... when we are feeling that big nervous excitement and shyness?

[ms.sin17]

is it accurate to say we are feeling "kinikilig"... when we are feeling that big nervous excitement and shyness?

YES! that is the feeling of "kinikilig", tOm..

[purex]

I get nervous talking to someone who is attractive especially when i like her. Did you experience that?

Oh Yes.. Though not so much now I am old (er ). When I was younger I had the most amazing ability to make a complete fool of myself in front of a girl I fancied.

It is so hard to know a person well. According to my best friend who happens to be my discipler, she said, the best thing to know the person is to observe him/her. She added, it is better to have friendship than having a short term relationship because in friendship you can be true to your friend. It is nice to have friendship and romantic relationship grows. After all it creates a wonderful relationship.

[crisipicada]

Yeah. Me too. I`m having a big nervous whenever I`m talking to my crush.. I don't know why.. I think its because Im shy talking with him.. hehe [/quote]
is it accurate to say we are feeling "kinikilig"... when we are feeling that big nervous excitement and shyness? [/quote]

kinikilig means you are happy indeed.

[tom]

I have observed, western people are talkative. They want to talk and talk. I don't know, maybe the person i will talk soon will be interested in me because i don't talk a lot. I am a quiet type of person. Maybe i am more a listener than a talker.

the western men i know consider quietness to be a very desirable and beautiful quality... "the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit" is highly treasured in God's sight (1peter 3:4)....

[stanley]

Westerner like sweet woman.

[Edwin]

I think there are huge differences in people everywhere. Some people are egotistic, proud, loud, obnoxious, and other bad traits. Many people tend not to care about their family or their relatives, and many people are not even good friends. But there are kind, caring, Christian, loving people who have beautiful manners, and think first of pleasing God, and then being kind to their neighbors.

[bushdr3]

It happens...
I have my times-and can converse on various topics...unless the woman is a show stopper..either I stick my foot in my mouth or loose my voice.

[crisipicada]

One thing that makes a woman get sad when her husband raise his voice and not sweet.

Filipina are sensitive in nature especially to those who live in the provinces like me .

[Edwin]

One thing that makes a woman get sad when her husband raise his voice and not sweet.

Filipina are sensitive in nature especially to those who live in the provinces like me .

Kind words spoken with a soft pleasant voice are best!