Looking For Love

[bguerin]

On Love and Foolish Endeavors
The climb to where love dwells has steps carved from the experience that went before,
Because of this, the climb is difficult; illusions alone are not enough to ascend the slippery slopes,
Once the summit is obtained, holding on becomes a survival test in itself,
For imaginings inflict there venom and words become weapons of destruction,
A night of passion yields a day wrought with moments of the past that never worked before,
Mistrust and ego combine with a deadly assault on all one holds sacred,
Secrets shared in passions on the climb, are hurled back with a force no enemy could muster,
It is said to be alone is dangerous, but with self esteem, alone becomes a comfortable pair of old shoes,
No argument is ever won; no battle fought ever-ended battles,
They are but instruments of self-doubt and a lack of courage to let the other’s belief live,
Since childhood we have been girded for battle with false beliefs only to end up old, the victims of our own self-deceit,
The fall from love is neither slow nor with compassion,
What once we cherished becomes an object of longing or hate,
However, whether swift or slow, fall we do and to our own wonder dare to make the climb once again,
Slower perhaps as self doubt absorbs us, till we hear, you’re wonderful, marvelous and I love you with all my heart,
Look carefully, as words are no substitute for experience, but live in hope
As it is what we rise each day for each day
B.R.Guerin 6/28/2002

[jadegil6]

I think that most of us single people are truly hoping to find our Mr or Ms Right. Sometimes we can become too picky, and let years slip by without making a choice. All too often, someone who may have been a great match is brushed aside because of a minor flaw from our perspective, and what may have been, never comes to be.

[lovely_tears8]

"JUST SHOW YOUR REAL PERSONALITY,AND ACCEPT THE FACT THAT IN THIS WORLD NOBODY IS PERFECT.."

[Tigger82d]

If you have to make someone love you then its not real and it won't last. Don't get in any hurry when it comes to love or you just might end up burned.

[chaychay644]

[quote="jadegil6"]How Can You Make Someone Fall In Love With You? [/quo

Just be yourself..and soon he'll notice you

[purex]

How Can You Make Someone Fall In Love With You?

Each one is destined for someone. Falling in love with someone is hard to explain, it is in the heart you can feel. Maybe you fall in love with someone because you have in common. You fall for someone because he or she possess qualities what you are looking for. As soon as you learn to know and love the person it is hard to forget her/him. So, to make someone fall for you is to be true and be loyal.

[prettysweet]

How Can You Make Someone Fall In Love With You?

Never pretend you are "SOMEONE" when in fact You're not. in short, JUST BE YOURSELF! NO PRETENSION!
SMILE!!!!!!

[Edwin]

If you can't smile at least show some teeth!!!!

Actually you can't make someone fall in love with you. As Prettysweet said just be yourself, and they will either love you or they won't. You want to be yourself, because you want the person to fall in love with the real you, and not the person you are pretending to be. If you are pretending to be something you are not, the person will be falling in love not with you, but with the person you are pretending to be.

[purex]

Actually, somehow if you communicate with someone, later on you will build deeper friendship and you wont know you will be good friends and later on become your loveone. It is better to build friendship because it is a good foundation of love. It is advisable to fall in love with your friend. As the song goes " I fall in love with my best-friend"

You develop mutual feeling and develop into something deeper. It is a good one and your love is true. So better with friend and later on love one.

[Edwin]

Communication is very important. It is great to have your husband, your wife, your boyfriend, your girlfriend as your best friend!