Me and My Adventurous Life!

[Rhusette_me]

I am Rhusette Roween T. Ricafort, 21 years of age, a single mom and I live in Butuan City but I am currently staying now in Surigao City with my older sister. I belong to a family with 6 siblings and I don't have a father anymore, he died last Christmas 2005, which was the worse Christmas I've ever had.. I already have a daughter and her name is Resa Rose and she will be turning 1 year old next year. I was sturdying before, here in Surigao City, taking up Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education Major in English but then I met a guy whom I thought responsible enough in handling a responsibility but then I thought wrong.
We fell in love with each other, or should I say, I fell in love with him. Something happened between us until I got pregnant. It's the reason why I needed to stop studying.

I had a hard time accepting the truth that I'm gonna be a single mom at a young age. Especially that the guy who did this to me just ran away the moment he knew I was pregnant. I was so down at that moment but never a second that I think of aborting the child.. I'm maybe a fool but Im not a criminal. During the entire duration of my pregnancy, the only persons who stayed with me is my family. They never left me nor judged me. They welcomed my baby with an open arms..

Some people stares at me and gave me that judgemental look. Some are frank enough to tell me face to face that Ive made a huge mistake. But never will I say that my baby is a mistake coz she's not..God gave her to me so I will accept her with all my heart. We will win life over problems together.

And because of what happened to me, I said to my self before that I will never ever let a guy hurt me again.. And that I will never trust any guy again..But then I paused for a while and think things over and over again. And then I said to my self, "Jhon should not be blamed by Peter's mistake.", if you know what I mean. So, now, I am ready to fall in love again. I wish to meet a guy who would be able to accept me and my child and also accept my past. A guy who is willing to be here and meet me no matter what the distance between us is. A guy who will trust me and he should be worthy of my trust too. A guy who has a long patience and knows how to handle long distance relationship because I dont have an everyday access to the internet because I live far from the cafes that I need to have a 30 minutes ride in order to get there.

So the best way to contact me is thru phone and emails.. I'll answer ur emails as often as I could..I already speak for my self and if your interested to me, talk to me..

Always,
Roween

p.s.
my contct num is +639262585740
my email address is born_to_make_u_happy2000@yahoo.com

[Edwin]

Rhusette, I along with all the Christian people here are thankful and happy that you did not abort your baby, and for that you are to be commended! I am very happy that your family stayed with you and supported you through this entire experience. We often make mistakes, and we have to pay for your mistakes, but if we trust the Lord and look to Him He will help us make the best, and overcome our mistakes. Often times we still have to pay even though we are sorry and we have repented, but often there are consequences and a price to pay. We were just talking about this with my brother and his wife a couple of days ago. We were talking about people dying and where they stand with God, and he said that people have been judging other people since the beginning of time. He left his wife because of some bitternesses, and I know he wasn't treated right, but I think he feels like he has been judged a plenty. People will judge, and I am glad that your family has not judged you harshly. I am sorry that the guy did that to you. Also it is an old story, and I have seen it on this forum before. The man comes from a Western country. He promises his girlfriend to help her and her family, and makes other promises as well, which maybe he intended to keep and maybe he didn't. Then she lets her guard down; lowers her standards, and they have sex because she, or maybe even her family too thinks that he is the answer. He gets her pregnant, and that is the last she sees of him. It is very sad. But you are right in that you have a beautiful baby that God has given you, and you and your family are right to protect and care for that little one.

I wish you God's Blessings in your life and His help for you. I hope you find someone who will treat you right and can be trusted.

[chaychay644]

I appreciate you girl for having such a brave soul..not all women have the same outlook in life..you also have the right attitude of not wanting ur baby aborted..having an angel is a blessing..it's just really frustrating/sad to think that sometimes we met people that takes advantage of our vulnerability...