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Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Wed Jan 18, 2012 1:40 am

What do you think of this article for inspiration? clairebartido said that she read about 31 ways to drive your man crazy. I did a search and this is what I found. I also found a book advertized that gives 203 ways to drive your man crazy in bed. I didn't read the book, so I don't know what it says, but it is very intriguing anyway. I have a few comments about what I read here. I think working out makes sense. I have never been into working out, but I have worked harder many times than people work when they are working out. Digging my cellar is very hard work, and probably harder work than I have ever done in my life, digging through hardpan, rocks, and gravel. I do it because it needs to be done, but it is good for me, except it is a little severe, and I have to be careful with my joints. This article suggests that it works better to get into bed after sweating, but I would prefer a shower first. Gain a few pounds to be more sexy, and this is the first time I have heard that angle, except that I have heard some men say they would rather be with a woman who has a little weight than to be in bed with a skin and bones woman. This is your choice I guess. I don't mind the weight as long as it doesn't contribute to poor health. Some of the other suggestions are merely saying make the man feel good, feed him well, and then the bedroom experience will be more exciting, and I will go along with that idea. There is a suggestion to talk dirty in bed? I have never seen that as an advantage. It wouldn't do anything for me. I heard a Four Square Minister preach a sermon once on language. He was saying that God is not against some of the language that we consider horrible, such as language associated with body functions and body actions, but I have been taught from almost birth that such language is wrong, and I can't use it with a clear conscience, nor do I care to hear it spoken either. The minister was saying that the language that God does not want to hear from us, is the taking of His Name in vain, or in making the sacred vulgar. So in that line of thinking we are not to use God's Name inappropriately, nor to make light use of God's things, such as sacriments; water baptism, infilling of the Holy Spirit, attributing God's work and Holy Spirit's actions to the devil and demons. I think like the Bible says, keep your yehs, yeh, and your neys, ney sp?, means that it is good to watch our language and avoid foolish jesting. I have never cared about the sexy lingerie. I think for my idea a modestly dressed lady is more desireable than someone who is inappropriately dressed. I do not want the whole world to see my wife more exposed than she should be. This is like virginity in that it is a more valuable gift to allow only the husband to enjoy the beauty of his wife's exposed body. For my idea less makeup is more appealing. Not everyone agrees on that point I know, but where I grew up long hair, little jewelery, little makeup, and modesy as valued. If people dress and are made up otherwise I can overlook that, because I realize that not everyone grew up in homes such as I did. My wife does not have the same opinion on this as I do, but she honors me by not piercing her ears, not wearing sleeveless dresses in public, and not putting on makeup, most of the time. She does cut her hair short, and I don't argue with her about that. She would not enjoy having long hair, so that is okay. :D :D :D :D

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10 Things Guaranteed to Drive Your Man Crazy (and not in a bad way!)
Women hear it all the time: “You’re driving me crazy.” Usually, it refers to incidences when you ask him to please mow the lawn, or to please take his feet of the just-polished coffee table. But what if you could take the phrase and make it a good thing? That’s right, we’re talking “you drive me crazy” in a testosterone driven Megan Fox kind of way. Looking to spice up your relationship? Read on for ten things you may or may not know are guaranteed to drive your guy crazy in the best of ways.
1) Work out.
That’s right, sweating it out at the gym will turn your man on, and not just because it’ll give you washboard abs (because let’s face it, how many of us actually have washboard abs?). Studies show the smell of sweat to be a natural aphrodisiac – and to release pheromones triggering a natural response from the opposite (or the same) sex. The scent released when you sweat increases sexual arousal – even when you don’t know it! So hit the gym, and then hit the sheets.
2) Gain a few pounds.
No, we’re not kidding. While there are some men who prefer the waiflike model types, most men like their women to look natural and prefer when they’ve got some curves. While we’re not suggesting you pig out on a daily basis, we are saying it’s more than fine to have some ice cream when you’re craving it. Stop stressing and learn to love your body the way it is, because chances are your guy thinks you’re gorgeous already and can’t wait to take off your clothes.
3) Catch him off guard.
Grab his hand in a restaurant and place it on your lap under the table. Just the fact that you’re willing to be so daring in a public place will have him totally worked up.
4) Compliment him.
It’s as simple as that. You know how good you feel when he tells you that dress looks amazing? He feels just as good when you tell him he’s cooked the most incredible mac and cheese you’ve ever tasted.
5) Officially gift him the living room for Sunday night football.
E! or Oprah may be your holy grail, but ESPN is his. Promise not to bother him while the game is on and you might just get a little something back in return.
6) Cook for him.
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Forget the cookies and cupcakes and go for the gold with a full meal. He might never admit it, but being taken care of like that might just remind him of his mother and make him feel all warm and happy inside.
7) Talk dirty in bed.
Yes, you can do it. No one’s listening! It’s just the two of you, and it will make him over the moon with lust. Even telling him he’s turning you on will turn him on. You don’t have to be vulgar. Just say what you’re feeling (no, “Oh honey, I love you so much!” doesn’t count).
8 ) Buy him tickets to a game or concert instead of a new sweater.
He doesn’t need any more sweaters. They remind him of his grandmother, and that’s not an association you want, is it? Buy him tickets to see a big game with his friends, or better yet, go with him and show him how sexy you look rooting for his favorite team.
9) Wear sexy lingerie.
It’s the easiest way known to man (literally) to make your guy crazy. White lingerie looks devilishly angelic, while black and red are always a turn on, especially when you add a garter.
10) Chill out on the hair and makeup.
That’s right, go natural. Tone down on the straightening, the curling, and the lipstick. Just highlight your features with a bit of mascara and lip gloss and you’re not only approachable, you’re sexy. Best of all, you’re YOU.
Good luck ladies!
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby jane50 » Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:19 am

after driving your man crazy, what would be the next step/steps to keep him stay with you? time will come that your man wants another driver that makes him crazier if not craziest ;) ;) ;)
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Mon Jan 23, 2012 10:44 pm

You have a point, Jane. The lady may drive her guy crazy in a good way, and that is good. If the guy is always looking for someone else to drive him crazy, crazier, or craziest that is a flaw in the guy. Faithfulness is important whether it is to family, friends, God, or partner. There are guys who are never satisfied and that is not good. They tend never to find what they are looking for because part of the problem of lack of satisfaction is with them. This is like the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, and usually the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence, so be happy with whom God has given you. :D :D :D :D
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby crisipicada » Wed Jan 25, 2012 5:58 pm

I believe that a relationship founded in the Love of Christ is always the most wonderful thing. God give us our sex drives, in due time, we will enjoy. I do not need to experience and learn about how to drive my man crazy, I will let my love express to him in the right time. If you keep on trying to please people in this, I believe that you will end up disappointed. Just be yourself, ask the Lord to make your man happy, just be yourself and keep the good faith.
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:49 am

I agree with you, Crisi, people worry too much about this. If we express love to each other it has to be wonderful. Having God help us to express our love to our partner in the right time is the best. If we try too hard to please people we will be disappointed. Being ourselves and asking God to help us please the other person is the best way to go. Being ourselves and being faithful is always good. Our joy and happiness comes from within us anyway. We allow God to give us joy, and then our lives are complete. Often times it is not our partner's fault whether we are joyful or not, but that is within us given from God. Then if we allow God's joy in our hearts our relationships will be complete and joyful. :D :D :D :D
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby eric » Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:36 pm

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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Thu Jan 26, 2012 10:08 pm

This subject reminds me of a picture Carol used to have on the computer, and I think we have it on a disk somewhere. The picture is of an older lady and a big dog sitting in the rider's seat. The woman looks calm, with both hands on the steering wheel with a fixed look in her eyes. The dogs eyes are large and filled with terror. It is obvious from looking at the picture that the dog is seeing something of which the woman is unaware. She is driving the dog crazy. :roll: :roll: :lol: :lol:
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Fri Jan 27, 2012 11:24 pm

You don't have to be crazy, but it sure helps. Actually I think in a romance craziness is one of the more desired traits. A sense of humor is one of the more important factors in the relationship. Just think of all the ways humor helps. When there is a tense situation, humor helps. When I was in Bible College one of our teachers had been an evangelist originally from Wales, still having a Welch accent, until you could not understand him at first. After listing to a number of his lectures you would then understand his lingo, and his vocabulary as well. Anyway, he told me once that he used humor when he would lose his train of thought. During his sermon he would crack a joke, then remember where he was going with what he was saying, and he would be right back onto it again. Humor always lightens the mood, and I love humor. I think I picked up a lot of my humor from my older brother who saw the funny side of everything, including what he was trying to do. My Dad had a very dry sense of humor, in which he would kind of make fun of people, but it was in a non offensive way that would not hurt anyone. He drove my Mom crazy with his sense of humor. He would change things she was trying to say to make her seem really silly, and she loved it. Everyone needs a sense of humor to endure life, and everyone needs to understand other people's sense of humor also. A good laugh is good medicine, and will make you feel much better for it. What would life be without humor. :roll: :roll: :lol: :lol: :D :D
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby Edwin » Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:15 pm

eric wrote:
crisipicada wrote:I believe that a relationship founded in the Love of Christ is always the most wonderful thing. God give us our sex drives, in due time, we will enjoy. I do not need to experience and learn about how to drive my man crazy, I will let my love express to him in the right time. If you keep on trying to please people in this, I believe that you will end up disappointed. Just be yourself, ask the Lord to make your man happy, just be yourself and keep the good faith.


I agree with you, just be yourself. If the man is truely in love with you, your touch will excite him. No experience necessary and would be nice to learn together what each others likes are. I also think there i a huge difference in love and lust. Love founded in Christ will be lasting and lust will only be fleeting. Just my two cents worth.


Yes, Eric, it is important to be yourself. If you are yourself the others will get to know the real you. You are always more interesting than what a person might pretend to be. If you are yourself you will be joking if you have that kind of a sense of humor, and there is more honesty when people are themselves. I Corinthians 13 tells all about love, and if you have those qualities what you have is love and not lust. In the Bible lust is synonomous with sin. Jesus taked about the Children of Israel lusting after the quail, and God was unhappy with them killing a lot of them in punishing them for their lust. Yes, learn together and it is more spontaineous, and it means more. So keep the Lord Jesus Christ as the center, and let everything else happen as it should. :D :D :D :D
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Re: Drive Your Man Crazy

Postby crisipicada » Tue May 01, 2012 12:20 am

Yes, I do believe that we are created by God to satisfy biological desires. Despite of that, He puts limit and precautions when. God designs us to have feeling to love someone in the opposite sex. We must to use our license to enjoy with our future mates in proper time.
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