Crisi, you are correct about your observations, and your desires. I think to have a loving husband who respects you, and will never hurt you, and the same for the guy is the most wonderful thing in the world. There is nothing better than having a loving mate, and there is nothing worse than having an abusive mate! Solomon said that it is better to live in the corner of an attic than to be in the house with a brawling woman, but a virtuous woman's value is far above any valuable rubies. She does wonderful things for her husband, and it makes him feel so good, that it causes him to prosper with his life.
I have this idea that people who love, worship, and respect God will also be kind to other people. So, for a Christian the safest thing in the world is to be under the care, love, and protection of another Christian. That is the way it is suppose to work anyway, and it will work that way if people are commited Christians, because no commited Christian is going to hurt anyone else. Seeking Him first, being obedient, and having peace are good signs!
