I think it is very normal to put your mate to a test because it will make you determine how does your mate love you or do he/she loves you. As I observe, man/woman dont put there mate anymore to a test today, [maybe there are but there would only be few nowadays] because they will just be afraid if there mate would lose in there lives.
I think it is much better to put your mate to a test because you would definitely discover who he/she really is and you will know the differences between you and your mate. So it would really the best if you will put your mate to a test just like what sissy chaychay did to his ex..