problems and love

[mystic]

Oh, it seems so impossible to do, to me too, but the solution is always to think that we are starting anew and there is no problem. The problem exists until you believe it exists. You you can find your smile again, you will be able to offer a smile to somebody in the future. But if you stay in your problems... you don't want to give problems to a potential new mate, no?

A good idea is to leave always your burden to the Lord, who knows how to take care of it. And you can become free to live new joyous moments.

[crisipicada]

As I grow old, my realization about life become deeper, problems get bigger, situations become more complicated, Suffering more intense...
Sometimes, I wish I could go back ... Back to the time when the only boy in my life was my father... my only bestfriend was my mother... And any pain could be healed by just a BAND AID and LOLLIPOP but I have to ACCEPT things...
that life would never be the same again... I could not change the world but I could change myself for good

[Edwin]

Yes, Crisi, my Dad told me when I was just a little kid that those were the best times in my life when I didn't have much to worry about, and he was right. He also told me that my school days were the best days of my life as well. Life has been hard at times, but the Lord helps us, and we must talk it to the Lord in prayer and leave our burdens there! And just a little talk with Jesus makes it right! We are to accepting God's things as little children, and there are more ways than one that it is good to be like little children! We are only to accept one day of responsibility at a time, and not take life too seriously, and be able to laugh at yourself!

Aya, all of us have our problems, and I hope and pray that God will help you with your problems and that your lovelife will improve!

[purex]

There are people who actually like to fight to feel alive. They think that to be true and honest they have to be harsh. My ex wife was so, for example. She hated people being gentle, saying that they were not true. Love was a very boring thing. But after fighting (always for naught or imaginary things), she "felt" love more.

For other people, problems in the relation are like a cold shower. I am like this. My brain goes into a short circuit and I cannot have other feelings. But inside I can still love the person. I just lose the "feeling" pr the intensity. And it lopks extremely difficult to control a short circuited mind filling it with the correct feelings.

What type of person are you? How do you behave and react?

I have the feeling that the more I try to hate the person but actually I acted that way because I love him. Hahahhah I guess I am crazy. Sometimes, people would interpret me that I am not on my mind, but I know that I love the person. Well, maybe i just really need attention After that, i feel better more and love the person more.

[m&m]

There are people who actually like to fight to feel alive. They think that to be true and honest they have to be harsh. My ex wife was so, for example. She hated people being gentle, saying that they were not true. Love was a very boring thing. But after fighting (always for naught or imaginary things), she "felt" love more.

For other people, problems in the relation are like a cold shower. I am like this. My brain goes into a short circuit and I cannot have other feelings. But inside I can still love the person. I just lose the "feeling" pr the intensity. And it lopks extremely difficult to control a short circuited mind filling it with the correct feelings.

What type of person are you? How do you behave and react?

That is true. I hate to have fights in a relationship. I hate to be stressed because it affects my heart. Since I need to be healthy because i was small when i was born and was in the incubator for 2 months, I should not be stressed.

When stress, it will increase your white blood cells. According to study as heard in the tv report last night, stress will make someone unhealthy. White blood cells are good but if it is more than required the body, it will clot in the artery and will have blood clot and that makes the blood pressure increased. Not only that, it will increase cholesterol level. And also will result to stroke and heart attack.

So when I have lots of problems or negative things i heard, i try to refrain from it. I want to be healthy and to be able to serve and love my future husband the Lord prepares for me. To lessen my stress, I try to settle my debt because I know that my future husband deserve to free stress life from debt. It needs to settle things before getting married or enter relationship.

That is very true, like my sister when she got married. She talked to her bf now husband to settle things from his children of 2 from his late wife, to finish them in studies and pay their tuition first. And settle his debt at the Pag ibig loan of house and many things they try to settle.

That is what iam doing also. I try to solve things and make things okay before getting into relationship. Because my future husband deserve to be happy and hope the Lord will give me husband that also desire to be happy too.