My brother-in-law, my wife's sister's husband, they are both dead by now, anyway when his wife turned 40 years old he would say that he wanted to trade her for 2, 20s. What he was saying was that he wanted to get two twenty years old girls to take the place of his 40 year old wife. It was just a joke. He was a young police officer in Colorado, and he took up with a woman, sent his wife home, had a baby with this woman, then a few years later she became history, and he married his first wife again, and lived with her until he died of Alziemers. He was 56 years old when he died, and we liked him a lot and missed him. Carol's sister just died a few weeks ago at 80 years old, and now they are buried together. The baby from that 2nd marriage is now a little past middle aged woman, and my how does time fly. It seems only yesterday, that she was a little girl riding with us in our car. We were approaching Chief Joseph Dam where we lived, and Carol, said to this little girl, "Delma, look at the Dam lights." Delma said, "Antie Carol, you really shouldn't talk that way!"