Things you have done after breaking up with someone you love

[Edwin]

When I broke up with my first boyfriend, I was too proud to cry with my siblings nor with my friends. They all knew it will end that way- he is an incurable womanizer. But I need an outlet and need to cry to lessen the pain but too proud to let other people see that my heart is bleeding. I wake up in the middle of the night, go to the garage and cry my heart out then go back to sleep and go to work afterwards with no swollen eyes.

I buried my self with work, lots of work and after three years, comes to terms with it and decided its time to move on and give love another shot.

Yes, I know a couple of womanizers, and you just can't trust them.

[janeithv]

This thing had aLready happened tO me.. I have really been hurt in the past and cried almost every night. I can`t imagine that I have successfully Leave it behind. But looking at that time, he was aLways been the One whOm Left me. At the time that he is still cOurting me, he is sO sweet and caring

This is always the scenery in the getting-to-know stage..but, as times goes a long, you'll able to see the flaws that you've never seen on that stage..

Guys were in their best in the courting stage. My first bf visited me 3 times a week, text me daily, call me every night and invited me to a movie every weekend. But after 8 months of officially being together, the visit became weekly, monthly, every other month, every full moon...

[susan]

Breaking up is so difficult for me. Forgetting the past is very hard. Even how much i try to keep busy still i remember.

[red]

As the song goes "takes time to heal a broken heart..." wont happen in just short period of time plus it depends on the persons psychological capacity...some even get into severe depression. Just get busy, hang out with friends and always pray.

[Ronald]

When i broke up with my first girlfriend it was so tough. It seems the world is upside down. Later i realize that she is not meant for me because she is not totally honest with me. I can't say that she cheated me but she is not to open about herself. Now i am happy with my girlfriend and sooner i want to ask her hand to be with me for eternity

[Edwin]

My sister-in-law burned a lot of her wedding memories after her husband left her. He was a policeman and took up with another woman, having a baby, living with her for a couple of years. Then he came back to his first wife, and they lived the rest of their lives with each other. She was very sorry that she burned a lot of her special things after they got back together, but once you burn them they don't come back.

[crisipicada]

The best thing you can do is to start over and give your heart and love life to the Lord. Ask Him to give you a new start and guide you to a right and new direction and fine the one who is really what He desires for you. Also ask Him what is the right thing to do and surrender everything. at this point you will find peace and love.

[Edwin]

The best thing you can do is to start over and give your heart and love life to the Lord. Ask Him to give you a new start and guide you to a right and new direction and fine the one who is really what He desires for you. Also ask Him what is the right thing to do and surrender everything. at this point you will find peace and love.

Yes, that is very good, Crisi!

[Edwin]

Be careful what you do after breaking up with someone you love. Emotions run high, and you can have feeling that drive you to do things that you will later regret. My wife's step sister was 10 years older than she. She was an only child and probably spoilt rotten. She found an married an only child, her childhood sweetheart. He was an only child and probably spoilt rotten also. Each one of them were deeply in love with the other, and they did childish crazy things. His family to begin with had a quite a large ranching operation; cows and calves. His father died early, and they decided to sell their ranching operation and move on to other endeavors. He became a police officer and moved with his family to Colorado. There sadly he met another woman, sent his wife home, divorced her, and married this second lady. They had a child. Then I guess everything was not wonderful because it was not long before he divorced his second wife. He moved back to his home valley and remarried his first wife. When she was sent home, she was felt betrayed and she was angry. So she broke, burned, and threw away all the special things from her marriage. Now after marrying him again she regreted breaking, destroying, and throwing those things away, but it was too late as they were gone. Now the second wife was off on her own, and she had her husband back with her and their three kids as well as having the child by the other woman, which did not add a lot of happiness. She had a difficult time treating the young girl well. Now both she and her husband are dead. The other lady is in an assisted living place. The next oldest child has had a stroke. He was an accomplished pianist, but he can only play with one hand now. He is getting better at talking and reasoning all the time, and he can get around fairly well. The oldest child can't be left alone because of mental/emotional problems. The youngest son is a building contractor and is doing well, and we see him and his family on a regular basis.

[tamaratiu]

go out with my friends, traveling and somehow I forgot how much it hurts... but the cure I know that is effective for me so far is to bury my self to work.