Hug for Health

[Edwin]

When I was growing up there was a lot of love in our family, but we didn't do much showing of affection by hugging and kissing. It was foreign. Carol is a hugger, so since being married to her I do a lot of hugging, and sometimes it is awkward, like one person wants a hug, and the other person is offended if you hug them. On the one hand someone can think you are making gay advances, and on the other hand someone might think you are coming on to the opposite sex. If Carol hugs, then I usually hug. Sometimes we hug someone or ones that we are close to, then a casual friend standing nearby says, "Don't I get a hug?" "Sure," and then a hug is given.

I have a 23 year old man that kisses me on the lips, and that felt strange at first. The other part of that story is that he is my grandson, and I was kissing him and he me from the time he was tiny, tiny, and he still does, but after he was grown it felt strange the first time or two after he was grown. But he still thinks of himself as being my little guy although he is much bigger now than I am, at about 6 foot 4 or maybe taller.

[brat4300]

Hugging is awesome... if done right. I've had hugs from a lot of different girlfriends and sometimes they have it and sometimes they don't. If they have it and know how to hug it is almost ecstasy. If you have feelings for that person and they for you there just isn't anything better than a good hug. It will make all your troubles go away and put a great big smile on your face. But if you have that in your life and lose those hugs it can be just the opposite.

But all of this is coming from a guy who physical touch is a big thing... I like to hug, kiss and hold hands. It is how I feel loved and so these things are amplified for me.

[Edwin]

Our good friend told me that when his filipina wife first came from the Philippines to where there was lots of snow, about the first thing she did was to fall down and slide in the snow. She wasn't used to walking in the snow where it was slick. He said it looked so funny that he had to laugh, but then that made his wife mad. So then after that he helped her on her feet, and then she needed a good hug, but then I think that hug was for his health and safely, so she wouldn't be mad at him anymore! It's like the best part of the fight is making up afterwards!

[chaychay644]

Our good friend told me that when his filipina wife first came from the Philippines to where there was lots of snow, about the first thing she did was to fall down and slide in the snow. She wasn't used to walking in the snow where it was slick. He said it looked so funny that he had to laugh, but then that made his wife mad. So then after that he helped her on her feet, and then she needed a good hug, but then I think that hug was for his health and safely, so she wouldn't be mad at him anymore! It's like the best part of the fight is making up afterwards!

that's so funny...and yea i must admit that m also amazed on how does it feel to be a place with lots of snow..every time my bf tells me that there are lots of snow in his place..i always tell him to take some pics..

[edeline]

My girlfriend and I hug each other often. This is one thing we show how much we are mean for each other. At first i can not tell how much she mean to me but i can feel she loves me and i cherish each moment were together. We agreed that our honeymoon be very special and we agreed too to engage in sex on our wedding night.

Wow how sweet. I long for that too. Hug is so wonderful feeling specially when you love each other so much. The world is so good to live when you have someone to be with and hug each other all the time. Hugs makes the day wonderful.

Either the one to hug or be hugged, that is so wonderful. It will be full of emotions. There will be a feeling of endless love flowing. Imagine with a partner with you and you two are sitting, suddenly the guy just stands up and hug the girl so tight. That feeling is so nice. What a nice feeling when you know the person hugging you loves you so much and thinking he or she can't live without you and on your side while being hugged thinking, how can I survive without hugs from you.

Hugs can surely give a good effect to a person. It provides so much comfort and safety making you think, " I am sure everything will be fine."

[Edwin]

I read some time back the little kids need hugs and kisses so they will be well adjusted. If they lack hugs and kisses when little it handicaps them, making them not feel so secure.

[crisipicada]

Anyone wants to offer hug? Hmmmm it is so wonderful feeling. Hugging your pillow at night is so comforting!

[eStu]

Anyone wants to offer hug? Hmmmm it is so wonderful feeling. Hugging your pillow at night is so comforting!

I'd be happy to offer a hug, Crisi. I like this thread, so positive. Crisi, you're really fond of your pillow/s aren't you? I hope you will enjoy hugging your future husband even more.

[Edwin]

Anyone wants to offer hug? Hmmmm it is so wonderful feeling. Hugging your pillow at night is so comforting!

I'd be happy to offer a hug, Crisi. I like this thread, so positive. Crisi, you're really fond of your pillow/s aren't you? I hope you will enjoy hugging your future husband even more.

My younger sister, by 4 years, sleeps with a body pillow. It is humungous, like probably 5 feet, and that is about all the taller she is, but she is taller than my other sister, who is about 4 feet 7 inches or so. She was 4 feet 10 inches at one time, but she has lost height due to her age. My brother and I are both about 6 feet tall. She sleeps hugging this pillow, and then I think she sleeps with three other pillows. She is a pillow person. Our grandkids sleep with her sometimes, and it is a miracle that they can all fit in the bed with that many pillows!

[crisipicada]

please please please. i really want someone to hug when bad times comes. i really need someone who is there for me in bad moments in life.


i really need hug for health.