Having a Relationship w/ Someone who Hates Commitment

[edeline]

If you cannot commit you have no right to stay in a relationship. It is very devastating someone who enter a relationship where you cannot stand. Why? Because you are killing him. Killing through emotionally, and it follows physically. If cannot commit, then stop dating.

I agree with that, but not all like to commit. For those people who don't want commitment they should also find a person who doesn't wnat to commit but it is very seldom that a person doesn't want to commit. We are entering in a relationship for a long time partnership if we are serious and if we are sincere about it however there are really some who just want to have fun and they are very hard to be detected.

Those are being devastated emotionally are those who are sincere in their feelings and hoping that soon their partners will be commiting but never happened. That is very very painful, yes emotionally being killed. No one is having a heart stone or let us no one is not hurt in terms of relationship.

[Edwin]

Our oldest granddaughter went through a really hard time with a boyfriend who was not good. They were into Devil worship, and she wasn't with them in that, but they had power over her, and it made some really bad times for all of us, but she is back around. There was an Assembly of God church fellow who befriended her, and traveled half way across the United States to help get her away from these people. They still held power over her, and it was hard even after that for a while.

She got a baby puppy dog because she said that she needed something to love her, and that was sweet. She tripped over something and fell onto this guy, and they have been together ever since, and that has been several years now. They both attend an Assembly of God church south of Seattle where they are going to college. He is into bicycle riding and she got into it for a while too. He is a vegetarian. His mother has kidney troubles and has to go the vegetarian life style, but he thought it made sense. He is half Malaysian. His mother came from Malaysia and married this lawyer, then they had their kids afterwhich they got a divorce. Now she is married to someone else. She is a school teacher.

He is in no hurry to get married. They are b/f and g/f, but he is not ready to get married for some reason. Our granddaughter would love to get married. He is a really, really nice guy. They all joke about how slow he is, so that might be part of it. He is slow getting his school projects in and slow getting ready for trips. He doesn't see any reason to get in a hurry about anything.