Do you have good relationship? How is it?

[wayne208]

Crisi... Great Post . I also thought You were about 12 years old ..Right now i have No G/F .. I got tired of Ladies in California Playing the Dating Game with Me ..I had a Lady from the Philippines who wrote Me every day for a Year ..I Now Know That she stopped emailing Me because She Thought I was never going to go to the Philippines.. I felt so Bad About that .. But Next Year In June I will go to Bohol for 10 days ..My friends are saying I will either come Back engaged or I will Move to Bohol..I am Going to Bohol as a Friend of Mine Owns a Resort in Bohol with His wife .He has Nothing But Great Things to Say about the Ladies of the Philippines .Many different things Make Me believe that God wants Me to go their ..I believe that in my Heart

[crisipicada]

Thank you for your message. Sorry about the girl that you communicate with. Do not rush because someday or somehow you will the woman for you. Trust the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.

I am not 12, ahahhha you make me laugh.

[Edwin]

Yes, Wayne I too am sorry that your girl quit you. She lost patience with you thinking that you would never come, huh? Well, that is sad, but like Crisi said, don't give up hope because it will happen as you trust in God. Also, don't rush, because they say haste makes waste, and you don't want that. I do hope that you will have a very good experience when you go to Bohol. I just talked with a guy who lives there yesterday, and he really likes living there.

[mystic]

That's sad, Wayne. But at least you know she was not the one for you.

In my past I always followed the 3-years rule. If a relationship fades away in 1 year (which in my idea is a very typical period), the person was not honest enough and wanted just one guy, whoever he might be. So, she was not really seeing in you her real One. Otherwise she would have waited.

3 years should be enough to know one's true face, but I cannot say that this rule is correct, because for myself it always failed. It didn't save me from bad surprises. I remember my grandpa teaching me the 7-years rule, lol. So I don't have a clear idea now of a way that could work.

Good luck in Bohol. I wish you can find the true one

[m&m]

In my past I always followed the 3-years rule. If a relationship fades away in 1 year (which in my idea is a very typical period), the person was not honest enough and wanted just one guy, whoever he might be. So, she was not really seeing in you her real One. Otherwise she would have waited.

3 years should be enough to know one's true face, but I cannot say that this rule is correct, because for myself it always failed. It didn't save me from bad surprises. I remember my grandpa teaching me the 7-years rule, lol. So I don't have a clear idea now of a way that could work.

Good luck in Bohol. I wish you can find the true one

"Tired of the Game?

Going out? Been dumped? Waiting for a call that doesn't come? Have you tasted pain in dating, drifted through one romance or, possibly, several of them? EVER WONDERED, is there a better way? "

[wayne208]

Thank You Ladies & Gentleman for Your kind words ..But Please do Not be Hard on the Lady that emailed Me everyday for a Year .. She was always Kind to Me .. After a year of emailing Me so Faithfully . She Probably figured I was the one Playing Games with Her ..I look at it this way .. I would get home from work and Their would be a Very Cheerful Email from her .. She also sent Me Nice Pictures of her and sometimes Her family at The Beach .. After a Bad Day at work .. You Guys have No Idea how Much I looked forward to those Emails .. She will always be the One I wonder about .. Thank You for All Your Kind Words. May God Always Be In Your Heart ..

[Edwin]

We won't be too hard on her, because maybe you didn't encourage her enough. It is hard to say what actually happened, whether you didn't get over to visit her soon enough to make her thing what you all had going was real, or what the problem really was. There is a good chance that it was not her fault or your fault, but it just happened and was not meant to be. A man says that it is really hard to figure a woman out, and the woman says that it is really hard to figure the man out, but sometimes it is hard for each one to figure the other out!

[mystic]

"Tired of the Game?
Going out? Been dumped? Waiting for a call that doesn't come? Have you tasted pain in dating, drifted through one romance or, possibly, several of them? EVER WONDERED, is there a better way? "

No, for me it has never been a game. I never went out fishing for women either. I always had only one relation at a time to which I was committed. It always happened only after I was knowing the person (apparently) from a certain time. I think I was consistent with God and myself.
Is there another way? It's some time that I have this question. But I don't know the answer. I don't even know if it is worth to be thrown again in this thing that for others can really be just a game.

The Bible says, marry the girl of your youth, but it didn't happen to me. I only know, if I will be blessed by God with the true one, that I will tell her: "Hey, where have you been all this time!!!" And she will probably say the same.
I am aware that she might also ask me: "Why did you not wait until the right one appeared?" I would have no other answer than this: "I was blinded and took the wrong choices".

[mystic]

Thank You Ladies & Gentleman for Your kind words ..But Please do Not be Hard on the Lady that emailed Me everyday for a Year .. She was always Kind to Me .. After a year of emailing Me so Faithfully . She Probably figured I was the one Playing Games with Her ..I look at it this way .. I would get home from work and Their would be a Very Cheerful Email from her .. She also sent Me Nice Pictures of her and sometimes Her family at The Beach .. After a Bad Day at work .. You Guys have No Idea how Much I looked forward to those Emails .. She will always be the One I wonder about .. Thank You for All Your Kind Words. May God Always Be In Your Heart ..

Sometimes girls, who don't want to make you feel bad, just won't tell you what happened and you will never know. Anyways, even if you would have known, it is very noble from you to still defend her. We are all on the same boat on this earth, and despite there might be differences and misunderstanding, it is worth cultivating the good attitudes toward the others. We can never fully judge the others, and maybe at their place we would have done the same.

[Edwin]

Yes, I guess lots of people play the games. It is all fun and games to them, and they don't care who they hurt in the process. Playing the games is like having fun at some other person's expense, and it is not nice! We want the other person to be true to us, and we should be true to them as well. I have seen a lot of them say, "I am not here to play games, and I hope you are not here to play games as well." It would be very nice if we all could trust each other!