We must realize that our enemy the devil will always desire bad to the life of Christian and to all of us. We must realize that our enemy is not the husband or the wife but the devil who is behind us. He create a bad attitude to people, make the person thinking out of the will of God, and most of all he is so selfish making ones life mesirable.
Because of this, we need to pray and ask for the Lord's guidance. For His protection and love in our hearts. If we try to see what is happening to us and we are upset and sad, the devil wil achieve his intention, so he is happy. That is why we need to trust the Lord and not to faint. It is so hard sometimes, but with close relationship with Him, reading His word, the Bible will enlighten us and change our thinking. We must be smart ahead of the devil and it is always by the grace of God that we will surpass all trials in life.
But remember that God is BIGGER than our problems. He knows what is best for us, if only we seek Him first. As He promised, "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you, Romans 6:33, also in Psalms, "Delight also unto the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. Be with good relationship with the Father and He will give us peace and understanding. that we cannot buy or attain in our own selves.