WHY ARE THERE MANY BROKEN HOMES ? MANY BROKEN MARRIAGES?

[Ronald]

Give and take in a relationship is important. Don't be mean to your partner. Talk a lot what's going on with both of you.
It needs two to make the relationship successful.

[Jeeem]

Hi everyone,

I'm new here, but I love this site. So many nice and beautiful ladies here.

I would like to comment on broken homes and marriages if I may...

A loss of old fashioned values is what I feel is the problem. Many men and some women view marriage and family as disposable now. Divorce is relatively easy to finalize, and mindsets are of the type, "The grass is always greener..." In America in particular, I feel Caucasian women don't know how to hold onto a man. Asian women, on the other hand, do. It's all in the way a woman treats a man. That is why I've moved and now live in Asia, because here a woman knows how to treat her man, and likewise, the man responds to this treatment in a positive way.

-Jeeem-

[mjsty]

broken homes and broken marriages are due to immature and impulsive decisions...

[bluebird]

Are you ready for a life time pledge "in sickness and in health till death do us part"?
This solemn commitment that pictures our relationship with Christ;
No matter what situation or circumstances that comes along the way
No one can take apart whatever life seems difficulty someday.

But why are there broken marriages or homes as we can see?
When feelings are gone and hearts get cold;
Is this life will always be this way when trouble comes the way
Where others take it easy and never treat it as eternity!

When things go wrong the two must stick more and pray
Knowing that life is full of tribulations and trials on the way;
Life could not be easy and marriage is not bed of roses
But it is the time of serving and both partners must stay.

Day by day love matures and more sweeter as both grow old,
Physical Beauty fades but inner beauty is everlasting;
Value things that last by mutually developing virtues
So you have story to tell to the next generation someday.

If things go wrong on your marriage life
Remember that there is God who wants happiness in all our way
Ask His forgiveness and healing in all the aches and pains
He will give joy and peace as others has received today.

[Edwin]

Are you ready for a life time pledge "in sickness and in health till death do us part"?
This solemn commitment that pictures our relationship with Christ;
No matter what situation or circumstances that comes along the way
No one can take apart whatever life seems difficulty someday.

But why are there broken marriages or homes as we can see?
When feelings are gone and hearts get cold;
Is this life will always be this way when trouble comes the way
Where others take it easy and never treat it as eternity!

When things go wrong the two must stick more and pray
Knowing that life is full of tribulations and trials on the way;
Life could not be easy and marriage is not bed of roses
But it is the time of serving and both partners must stay.

Day by day love matures and more sweeter as both grow old,
Physical Beauty fades but inner beauty is everlasting;
Value things that last by mutually developing virtues
So you have story to tell to the next generation someday.

If things go wrong on your marriage life
Remember that there is God who wants happiness in all our way
Ask His forgiveness and healing in all the aches and pains
He will give joy and peace as others has received today.

When things go wrong the two must stick more and pray
Knowing that life is full of tribulations and trials on the way;
Life could not be easy and marriage is not bed of roses
But it is the time of serving and both partners must stay.

Yes, it is in sickness and in health, and until death do us part, and it is a picture of Christ and His Bride, the Church redeemed by His Blood.

[red]

Tell you this truth: even couples who have fear of the Lord and are both devoted christians still striving for the marriage to work out. Marriage is a working process...couples still do fight at times even they are christians. Some even still get devorced despite having the Lord God as the center of marriage. As long as we are on earth temptations are around us, mind you, even a christian partner can be tempted. Im speaking of truth here.

[crisipicada]

Life is full of trials and tests. Knowing that life is a test, we are always being tested in faith, love and loyalty. Now i see to it that all we must do is for God's glory. Be very vigilant that our enemy constantly wants to destroy us. If things going wrong in life i learned to trust God more even if life doesn't make sense because He knows what He is doing for us. I have learned that character development is what is on process for us while on earth to prepare for eternity. Life on earth is just a little compare to eternity. God never fails so keep on trusting Him

[Edwin]

Yes, trust in God and know that He knows best! It is true that this life is so short in comparison with eternity.

[wantingmore]

I would suggest to know the person well before marriage. There are different stages of relationship and when you are engage level it is best time to know well, how she spend time together in the night, what character she has when tough times come along. Is she kind enough when the man is desperately want hot.

[crisipicada]

Love language or Showing love to someone varies among others. For instance, their love language is more on service, being thoughtful or physical language. One of the person introduce to me about love language and i now known that my love language is more on physical touch. This is because i use to hug and kiss my nephews and niece. We express our love how important being attached to each other. Could this means that this is how i portray love language to my future husband? Please help, Tom!!!