is finding the so called the one true?and how you will know?

[Edwin]

Yes, mystic, our bodies are mostly comprised of water! And there is a certain amount of water in almost everything. Lettuce and celery have lots of water in them. Even foods we consider to be very dry have a certain amount of water in them. Truly is we don't have water we will not live long.

The Bible says in Proverbs 6:27; Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? 28; Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned? 29; So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her hsall not be innocent."

Fire speaks of cleansing and judgement. Our works will be tried by fire, and the works that do not count will be burned up, and we will suffer loss, only our souls will be saved. So there is wood, hay, and stubble which will be burned up in the fire, and only gold, silver, and precious stones will be saved. So what we do to be seen of men, and for self glory will perish, but what we do for the glory of God will stand the test of the fire! Our works will be tried by fire!

[crisipicada]

There are times when we have feelings with someone and we know that he or she is the one. I know that because I experience that. Sometimes we will realize that he or she is the one because that is what our instinct is saying and what we fell. But, it needs right time and in the right place and in the right person.

Sometimes the revelation to you is now but to the person, it needs time. That is why both must wait for the right time, and in the right attitude and in the right person.

[Edwin]

Yes, Crisi, that is true, the right person and the right time, and then everything works out, hopefully.

Spring is the time of reproduction, and it is true with the animals as well. In the movie "Bambi" the rabbit is shown with love in his heart. It is kind of a fun Walt Disney cartoon movie, but it does have some sad elements which are true to live.

There is a song that Tom Jones sings, it is "There Is Love In the Air:"

Songwriters: PENNINGTON/LEMAIRELove Is In The Air
Love is in the air everywhere I look around
Love is in the air every sight and every sound
And I don't know if I'm being foolish
I don't know if I'm being wise
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when I look in your eyes.
Love is in the air, in the whisper of the trees,
Love is in the air in the thunder of the sea,
And I don't know if I'm just dreaming,
I don't know if I feel safe,
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when I call out your name.
Love is in the air, love is in the air, oh, oh, oh, oh, uh,
Uh, uh, uh.
Love is in the air, in the rising of the sun,
Love is in the air, when the day is nearly done,
And I don't know if you are illusion,
Don't know if I see truth,
But you are something that I must believe in,
And you are there when I reach out for you.
Love is in the air everywhere I look around
Love is in the air every sight and every sound
And I don't know if I'm being foolish
I don't know if I'm being wise
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when I look in your eyes.
Love is in the air, love is in the air, oh, oh, oh, oh, uh,
Uh, uh, uh.

[crisipicada]

Being_me, I am sure and believe that there is really someone for you or each individual.

I have heard someone says, "I regret of my marriage and it is the wrong marriage".

As I believe that, many trials would come and problems and misunderstanding in the family. Even how hard maybe the situation, keeping together and still believing and still holding on, will always make marriage happy. There will always ups and downs, of course.

In the case that you believe that it is the wrong marriage, I do believe that it is not yet too late to start a new one.

As in the Philippines, there is no divorce. Even as we read in the Bible, divorce was granted due to human hard heart and head. but at first it was not so.

Unless the wife or husband committed adultery or third party, the divorce is granted and can marry again. but if the husband or wife leave their partner and still alive, both can't marry. That is the scripture says. Or else if you marry, then you commit adultery.

Therefore, it is important to commit the love life to the Lord. In the case that you find someone, as you believe he or she is the one, and then you found out that that man or woman is not yet ready to commit to you, I would suggest that wait for the time that she or he will be ready. Pray that all difficulties or problems settles, or maybe you need her or him so that she or he can be at peace and problems solve. We do not know. It is really good to wait for the right time, even it cost us to sacrifice our time. We wont regret it.

[Edwin]

Yes, the right time is very important. Many problems come from being too anxious and jumping the gun so to speak. We must wait for God's time, and seek His guidance for our lives, in marriage, and in other decisions that we make. It is very true that there are ups and downs. Life does not go perfectly as we would like to have it go. We make the best of what we have, and trust God to help us.

[mystic]

I guess I have been waiting 40 years for the right time... but I found only the wrong time. Does a right time really exist?

Shouldn't we cause the right time to happen? (Of course with God's blessing)

[Edwin]

Have you ever heard about someone buying something new, and they describe it as having all the "bells and whistles!" I think the reference is to having the car, if that is what is being talked about, having all the assesseries sp? Anyway they used to sell a basic new car that would run okay, it would lack a lot of extra things, like power steering, radio, airconditioning, and other add on things. You could buy the basic car at a reasonable price, but if you wanted it dressed up with all the extras you would have to pay more money for it. I am like a lot of other people in that I liked to have all the extras even if they were not necessary for transportation. Then with that kind of a car you can ride around in style! I went to school with a fellow who perfected a special vent that he could open at highway speeds to blow the young lady's dress, and at that time many of the young ladies wore full dresses, so he got a thrill from that, but I don't know whether he could get any of them to ride with him a second time or not!

Well, I guess you will know if your young lady has all the "bells and whistles!" If she is well dressed, including modestly, well groomed as well as not having too much makeup on, then she is attractive and desireable. Nothing takes the place of just being yourself and having fun. I think you will know when you find the right one, because a little voice will tell you that!

[mystic]

The issue arises when one thinks he heard that little voice various times, all of which proved to be wrong. Maybe we go back to the discourse of guarding one's heart. But indeed a person of values, who tries to be wholesome, questions his sanity after some wrong experiences.

One has to choose whether he wants to be the captain who sinks with his ship - just to keep his values intact - or accept compromise - and lose the concept of what he is and what his values are.

Well, I don't want to be negative. Just offering some points for the conversation.

[Edwin]

That's okay mystic, sometimes I like to be humorous, and when I used the comparison of the bells and the whistles, I was actually being humorous, but you will have to admit that looking for a young lady who has all the bells and the whistles is a very humorous and happy idea. What Gary123 said in the other post about making sure that the two people are fit for each other is good. Also taking some time and making the decision wisely is good as well. The little voice is a fun thought to, and it is almost like God speaking to you, and it could be God speaking to you, so listen, compare what you hear with scripture, and it might all be good!

[crisipicada]

To the married people, you are the one who can tell us how did you know that your wife or husband become "THE ONE" in your life? and how did you know it was him or her? Somebody had told someone "YOU ARE THE ONE" but actually he or she did not mean it. When things go wrong, he or she then tell someone "Well it did not work". How sad for people said that. It is very devastating really.