I do believe that being honest and true is the most important for any relationship. But there are attributes of the person that I really like most. One is being understanding and caring. That means, do not argue with me if i got wrong. If you want to share about your ideas, then just let me know and do not say that what my thoughts are wrong. Just like in any conversation yesterday with my officemates and my chief, she suggested the format she made. Then my chief suggest another thing. And now, I try to see the format and then it is quite complicated.
So, instead of saying that is not good, I just talk to my boss, "Sir, I would suggest this format, is it okay for you and explain it to him and it is final format. Thanks, they agreed. So, being nice to say things is one thing that wont trigger bad feelings.
Another thing is, that will always point me to the Lord, that will tell me encouragement about what God's promises. It really relieves me a lot. Yes, it is important to have some financial security but God is the source of everything. That is why, all that God has given us are just stewards to us. The more we become close to God, the person is also getting close to you. The more you insist to like someone even he or she does not like you, you are throwing him or her away.
Hmmm just do not forget my chocolate