"What you think is what you get, what your perspective in life is what life could happen."
Out of the quotation above, we can say that bigblastguy is very against this online thing to know the other person particularly to filipinas. We can conclude that he is so negative about filipina as a potential wife or a better wife compare to American women. We can conclude that, he does not like online website giving the chance to meet other women from other countries.
If that is the case, he discourage this to continue. And because of this, he hated this online website why it exist. If this is the case, his mind is being polluted by his experience and observations. Therefore, he is not hopeful or looking the positive side rather than making accusations.
In this situation, all of us will give account to the Ultimate. And your responsibility and mine, must make an effort that all things must work out for good even seems life's situation is bad.
Have you remember Joseph, one of the Bible Character? His brothers sold him, and then he was in egypt and become slave. There were so many bad things happen to him, and the sad fact is that, his own blood tries to kill him, but unfortunately, they were not able to kill him. When he was in prison, he was able to interpret the dream of the Pharaoh and said to the butler that he must remember him, but the butler forget him and still in prison despite of the good thing that he has done. Until the time he become the governor in Egypt and there was drought. Until, the wife of Pharaoh tries to give him false accusation and told Pharaoh that Joseph try to rape her.
Despite of that, all things (bad and good) work together for good.
The wisdom here is that: As long as you are hopeful and be positive in life, we do not know the mind of God for all of us, but He has something in store for us in the future.
Just like in here knowing someone online, sometimes, you are I can be a victim, but remember, all of us will give account to Him.
Because of this, Bigblastguy experience to be a victim or whatever.
Does everyone experience good out of evil that happens online to his life? Remember, Romans 8:28 says, All things work together for good, to them that love God who are called according to His purpose.