You are completely correct Red; you do what you can, and then it is up to the couple involved! I don't know that many people or I would be glad to help out. I have been asked several times, and it makes me feel badly that I can't help, but we live far away from everyone, and we have very few friends. I know a few people that I would not recommend because of their history, but if I knew someone that I thought would be reliable I would be glad to help.
Yes, Red, Sir Michael takes males and lists the profiles as well as females, so the process is the same, and just think of all the females that will be looking at those few males!
Yes, Red, driving in hard raining conditions can be very dangerous. Anyone driving in such conditions needs to slow down, and watch for the water on the road. Water builds on the road in low spots and forms little lakes. Then if you hit those at high speeds you could lose control, and it is called hydroplaning. You can't steer, for the car is just like a boat in such conditions only you have very little control as your car gets whipped around on the road, and it can go in any direction, sideways, going into a spin, so slow down and watch for those water spots!