SEX

[m&m]

is it true guys that if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, you got irritable?

[Tigger82d]

That all depends on the reason she would not want to have sex. If she is sick or hurting then thats understandable. If she is more interested in the tv show and eating tater chips then yep I just might get irritated.

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is it true guys that if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, you got irritable?

It's true to some guys. (hey honey! how do you feel if I dont make love with you? ) he said it's a war day.

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it goes vice versa......

[eStu]

is it true guys that if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, you got irritable?

That all depends on the reason she would not want to have sex. If she is sick or hurting then thats understandable. If she is more interested in the tv show and eating tater chips then yep I just might get irritated.

In a committed relationship I think that both parties should enjoy satisfying each other sexually... it's a win-win situation!

Intimacy is important and special, I'm sure there are lots of general health benefits from a satisfying and active sex life, but I also think that if either partner isn't keen to engage in intimacy/love-making/sex then it could be quite a bad sign for the health of the relationship in a broader sense. Less intimacy/sex means less endorphins released, less happy feelings, and then you also have an issue of the negative emotions arising from one party getting stone-walled.

If I found my self in the situation that Tigger gave an example of (partner being more interested in eating crisps and watching TV) then I think rather than just being irritated I might take it as a flag of some underlying problem. I mean, I enjoy the odd potato chip as much as the next person, but if I was with someone and she preferred to eat potato chips over making love with me??? hehehe... well, I don't imagine I'd ever end up with someone who had such poor judgment.

Regarding the watching TV part... well... women do say they're good at multi-tasking.

it goes vice versa......

Yeah... t's a two way street. Men and women both have needs and desires... ... mMmMmm grass

I have heard some joking stories about wives sometimes excusing themselves from bedroom activities by saying "Not now, dear, I have a headache", but I was previously in a long-term relationship with a woman who was convinced that sex cured headaches... hehe win-win situation again!

[Tigger82d]

A man slipped out of bed late one night, went into the bathroom, got two asprin. Returning to bed he dropped the asprins in his sleeping wifes mouth. She woke up gagging and spitting the asprins out of her mouth, asking him "What the heck are you doing?" He calmly replied "I'm just giving you some asprin for your headache". The wife then said "But I don't have a headache!!!"

I know this belongs in the jokes section but it goes so good with the previous post.

[crisipicada]

My officemates always teasing me about having a partner in life so that all my health issues be gone. I hope i will be okay and still waiting and hoping.

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[quote="crisipicada"]My officemates always teasing me about having a partner in life so that all my health issues be gone. I hope i will be okay and still waiting and hoping. [/quoI

I knew some who had heath issues when they were singles and when they got married it all gone. But mine was different, when i was single i had no asthma, after my second baby i developed an asthma. It's not guaranteed that having sex partner will make you healthy. But it's a blessing having a husband and maybe it will fulfill happiness. No guarantee, marriage is a working process there is ups and downs, trials, temptations lots of challenges.

[Edwin]

I think I heard some time ago that married couples actually live longer. God saw that it was not good for a man to be alone, and I think that applies for a woman also.

[crisipicada]

it is hard to be alone, Mr. Edwin