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IF YOU SHOW LOVE TO OTHERS, I BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL LOVE YOU IN RETURN.

If we want friends we have to show ourselves to be friends. We are not only to love those who love us, but we, like God, are to love the ones who don't necessary love us. Yes, I believe that love begets love, so if we love, we are more apt to be loved in return!

I was watching movie in the television yesterday afternoon. While the character of the movie are laughing without any reason, I tend to laugh also.

While my friends are laughing this morning, as they are talking with his friends, I tend to laugh also because of the way he laugh.

While, the woman keep on spanking a boy approximately 10 kilometers distance away from me while I was eating breakfast, i feel the pain and then I went directly to the woman that she has no right to hurt he boy - maybe age 2 to 3 years old. Since she keeps on spank and telling bad words, I told her that I will call the DSWD and she be arrested of the violation of children's right. She stopped.

Just like loving someone, if you choose to love someone, you will be loved in return as other feeling you feel outside the world.

Romans 5:5; " And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. 6; For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7; For scarcely for a righteous man will on die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 8; But God commendeth his love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. 9; Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him."

The love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost. Yes, love does beget love. Because God loved us and put His love in us we are able to love others. Jesus demonstrated a selfless love, the love of God, in which He loves the undeserving. Because God loves us and He has put His love in us, we know what true love is, and we are capable of loving because God has first loved us.

If we want friends we must show ourselves friendly. I believe that love does beget love. But if we only love those who love us we are no better than the lowest of sinners because all sinners love their own kind. God wants us to love those who do not love us, or are unloveable, or unlovely. I do know what this post is saying though, and when we show love we are more apt to be shown love. If we live our lives with hostility other people will probably show us hostility as well. If we live our lives without being offensive other people will show us kindness as well. Love does beget love. If we show lvoe, love will be shown to us as well.

If love begets love, then how will you know that the person loves you?

Is love without action is not love at all?

What is the basis and standard of your love when you show it to the person? I am referring to people of the opposite sex. Please share your thoughts in here. Would glad to read your reply.

I think love is like faith. We can say that we have faith, but if we have no actions, we probably don't have faith. If we say we have love and we don't demonstrate that love, we probably don't have love. You will know that the person loves you by what that person does.

When we talk about love for, or with the opposite sex, I think a big part of that is respect. If we are a man we are to treat older women as we would treat our mothers. We are to treat younger woman as if they were our sisters, nieces, or children. When we have love we will behave appropriately with respect. When we are married we will not abuse our marriage partner, and that goes for men and women. Women hurt men sometimes, and men hurt women, and that is not love. Some hurt their marriage partner because they want to be the controlling one. Others hurt their marriage partner because they are jealous, and many have both problems. Abuse is not love. Lust is not love. The abuse can be physical in that one of the marriage partners break the other person's bones, blacks their eyes to the point that their eyes nearly swell shut, or damages their joints in their conflicts and struggles. The abuse can be mental also in which one marriage partner intimidates the other. They can threaten, screem at them, or black mail them in one way or another. Any time one partner puts fear in the other partner that is abuse and not love. Some people start this behavior even before they are married, and they get married and the abuse continues and escalates. Each time the marriage partner is beaten, those beatings become worse. Often times the one who is beaten has to apologize, and admit they are wrong, even though they are not. One marriage partner tries so hard to make the marriage work that they are willing to stay even after getting beaten almost to death. Some leave after such behavior, then they return and get more beatings. Sometimes with the beatings there are verbal thrats to kill as well, and every once in a while people in those kinds of relationships do kill each other.

Love is showing kindness and treating each other as God would want us to treat each other. Ephesians 4:31; "Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: 32: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."

[i]If a person loves someone, he or she shows that he/she cares to that one special person in his/her life. We can tell that a person is so much in love with that certain person if we see actions and evidences. I can see that if some men are still courting the women, wow they are so sweet and they try to do all that can please the women but when they get the yes of women already, looks like the actions vanish and sometimes show that they don't care anymore of women they have.

We can determine that a person truly loves us if he/she shows so much concern and care for us. He/she willingly listens to us no matter how non sense what we are talking about because he/she loves us. I have been into that and now I realized that some of the things that I told him were non-sense but it makes me think how lucky I am to have this best guy in the world who always listen to me and never complained that he was/is tired of listening to me.

Live in marriage is not acceptable in the church because it says that it is a sin living together. The two supposedly must have marriage first before living together but in my case I am not against those people who are living in together before marriage. That seems a wiser decision on me because if someone is not treated well at least he/she can still have the time to move backward in the relationship. If one is not being good to other. there is no reason of staying to that person. Love is a matter of understanding in so many issues, things, situations and opening informations...it is not DOMINATING. Yes that is true, some try hard no matter if they are beaten up for so many times because they value the marriage and they try to let it out work but if only one person is trying hard to let it work, believe me it will never work. A person is going to marry because he/she wants to be happy but he/she is not treated well better to be single that mistreated. Every person is different and there are really people raised being so perfectionist, they should find the ones who are also perfectionist.


If two persons are in a relationship and not yet married, then the partner is beating up the others, it will be more when they get married. It is better to stop. It is always hard to leave someone specially if the two have been together and have many memories but that will not help. There was one person who loves so much his bf and supposedly future husband but confuses later to marry the man. The man always makes feel the woman very low saying, YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT and when the woman was asked something, she received a question back...WHAT DO YOU THINK? The woman said, look I asked you because I don't know, don't treat me as if I understand you right away because we are not of the same race. The man wanted the woman to understand quickly what he is saying which is so hard. He didn't have any option. When the woman said to her friends about the situation, her friends told her you better leave that..he is so perfectionist and he gets irritated when you don't understand right away. The persons must have patience towards each other and supposed to teach each other. If one can't understand then the other should be patient enough.


The person that I love so much is very very patient. I am lucky/i]