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What Turns You On? What Are Some Things That You Can Do To Keep Your Partner Coming Back For More?

The most overlooked ingredient in a successful sexual encounter is the presence of ENTHUSIASM! No matter what you look like, or your physical attributes or limitations, you will always be remembered for how much you put into the experience. Don't act like a pillow, and just lie there on the bed. Be active. Be passionate. Make some noise.....those sighs of pleasure will do so much for your partner's enjoyment, and will be extremely appreciated. And men, don't be selfish. Don't bring that "I got mine, now you get yours" attitude into the equation. Bring your partner with you to that plateau of ecstacy. Be playful. Foreplay is critical to a mutually enjoyable experience. Show her how important she is to you by spending the time to get her to Home Plate. Don't leave her stuck somewhere betwen 2nd and 3rd base with no where to go. Most women want to be caressed and touched and kissed and told how special they are. Leave that "Wham, Bam, Thank you Ma'mm" stuff to the boys, and show your lady how special she is to you by 'loving' her in the way she deserves. Above all, be enthusiatic! And you won't be forgotten.

You have made some thoughtful and informative posts. Hope the forum is successful.

Couples who spend time alone together, and are not in a rush to get it over with, have a much better experience. Don't treat it as a requirement. Treat it as an adventure. Have fun. Experiment with new things. Be playful. Think of your partners feelings and enjoyment as much as you do your own.

I think taking your time and going slow so you can both enjoy the moment together instead of one person finishing and the other still needs attention. Bubble baths for foreplay and lots of caressing beforehand will make it really so much better. *wink*
Plus.... i'm to old and slow to chase her around the bedroom. lol
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jadegil6 wrote:What Turns You On? What Are Some Things That You Can Do To Keep Your Partner Coming Back For More?

Show the love you can. Spend time for each other. That is the most important.

This topic can be a bit of a tongue twister

Still - it always made my wife smile

longhorn1 wrote:Couples who spend time alone together, and are not in a rush to get it over with, have a much better experience. Don't treat it as a requirement. Treat it as an adventure. Have fun. Experiment with new things. Be playful. Think of your partners feelings and enjoyment as much as you do your own.

yes be playful hmmm it is really a lot of fun.

dont react to making love as a chore or something that has to be done
being spontaneous helps too