why date on line when there are millons of available partner

[abufarsi]

WHY DATE ON LINE WHEN THERE ARE MILLIONS OF AVAILABLE PARTNERS JUST AROUND THE CORNER?

I have not seen this question broached, and it is possibly the most important question any of us here should ask both ourselves and to others.

Obvious answers such as " I want to be in love and married, but so far that just has not happened, I decided to look farther afield". leave me empty. Yes expanding your choices is a valid reason, but expanding them with a world wide search is suggesting a superficial choice is reasonable. Who could realistically interview the possible choices in the millions of men/women out there?

My personal reasoning is that I just do not do well in the dating scene. It is simply not who I am or what I enjoy. Why try to find people in bars or churches when you will rarely visit those establishments after you are together? It is a kind of lie. Further I am old, but I enjoy a life's setting that is common to the young. Children, family living together. But here in the USA very few younger women who could provide me with that setting would consider marrying a substantially older man. But women abroad would.


Please share your thinking on this topic.

[purex]

Actually, my relatives are in politics but i am not sociable but i try too. Maybe because of upbringing of my father.

Maybe i just want to go online if i will be successful in looking online.

[needeflorgo]

Cool! Write again!

[brat4300]

My brother is married to a Filipina he met while stationed in the Navy over there. She is a great wife and a wonderful woman. I recently (6 months ago) broke off an 18 month relationship to a very selfish American woman and was very heartbroken from it. My brother and I were talking and he told me I should find me a "Brown Girl" (meaning a Filipina) because of how wonderful wives they are. Well I knew how great Ludy has been with him and how strong their relationship is so I decided to look specifically for Filipina woman to communicate and maybe find a future with. I used google to find me a couple of sites but they all wanted money until I found this site.

It has been an interesting ride so far and we will see what comes of all of it. But that is the reason I am looking for love online. I still look in other places but I have this option so why not use it.

[Edwin]

Brat, I think Filipina women are wonderful. They are everything most American women are not. If I needed to find someone that is where I would look. I like their outlook on family life, the sanctity of marriage, and they are loyal and loving from what I have seen. They value things in life that are really important. Almost all of them are God fearing and loving. Many of them pray, read the Bible, live by the Bible and attend church. They are very generous to a fault.

It is kind of funny, because before my wife, Carol's brother met his Filipina, he said that he was looking for blue skies, white beaches, and brown women. He and his Filipina have put in 10 years of marriage now, and they are very happy. He says that he is happier than he has ever been in his life. He lives in the Philippines all the time, only coming to the USA once a year, or every other year for business, and sometimes for medical reasons. I guess his Filipina is not interested in US citizenship. He is well off enough so that he has set her up with a wonderful place with two houses, a large swiming pool, a large garden area, and they live like a kind and a queen. He has put some of her family through college, and set some of them up in business. It has been and continues to be wonderful for them.

[abufarsi]

I am with you 100% edwin.

You forgot to ad that Filipinas are flat out sexy. White women have to shave their legs, Filipinas don't have much body hair. White women are always trying to get a tan, Filipinas have a PERFECT tan ALL the time. Common for a white woman to hit 300 pounds ( is it even possible to have sex with such a mountain of a woman?), Filipinas, 110 pounds is average.

[Edwin]

Sexy is great! I don't mind some body hair! Small and light weight is fine too! Natural tan is geat also! Filipinas are just right! Then there are all the other positives as well!

[crisipicada]

Guys, do you still love your wife if she becomes old . what if she is already fat, will love still remain

okay, i know generally men is looking in the outward appearance. what if your woman got accident and she is not pretty and she is handicapped, will you still remain and be devoted to her

i am grateful that there are still men who are looking at heart and not at the outside appearance because i believe it will fade away as time goes by.... yes, filipina dont need to tan because we are brown. lately i walk along the dike of the farm and i am so tan now.

[brat4300]

Crisi,

You are right that guys are very much visual creatures, but we also have hearts. When a real man finds the woman of their dreams we found her because of her inner beauty not just because of her appearance. Appearance attracts us to them but whats inside is what keeps us around. As we grow old with them we both change in looks but the love doesn't fade because she is just as beautiful to us in her later years as she is when we first saw her.

I won't lie, there are guys out there that are all about physical appearance and would dump a woman over it... but there are real men out there with hearts and souls waiting to find that girl with the big heart to match theirs.

[Edwin]

Yes, marriage is until death do us part. Carol and I are in it for the long haul. There is something about all that history that two people make over the years, and the kids and grandkids, for us going on 43 years. Carol battles with her diabetes, and she doesn't feel well a lot, but she does as well as she can.