why date on line when there are millons of available partner
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 11:57 pm
WHY DATE ON LINE WHEN THERE ARE MILLIONS OF AVAILABLE PARTNERS JUST AROUND THE CORNER?
I have not seen this question broached, and it is possibly the most important question any of us here should ask both ourselves and to others.
Obvious answers such as " I want to be in love and married, but so far that just has not happened, I decided to look farther afield". leave me empty. Yes expanding your choices is a valid reason, but expanding them with a world wide search is suggesting a superficial choice is reasonable. Who could realistically interview the possible choices in the millions of men/women out there?
My personal reasoning is that I just do not do well in the dating scene. It is simply not who I am or what I enjoy. Why try to find people in bars or churches when you will rarely visit those establishments after you are together? It is a kind of lie. Further I am old, but I enjoy a life's setting that is common to the young. Children, family living together. But here in the USA very few younger women who could provide me with that setting would consider marrying a substantially older man. But women abroad would.
Please share your thinking on this topic.
I have not seen this question broached, and it is possibly the most important question any of us here should ask both ourselves and to others.
Obvious answers such as " I want to be in love and married, but so far that just has not happened, I decided to look farther afield". leave me empty. Yes expanding your choices is a valid reason, but expanding them with a world wide search is suggesting a superficial choice is reasonable. Who could realistically interview the possible choices in the millions of men/women out there?
My personal reasoning is that I just do not do well in the dating scene. It is simply not who I am or what I enjoy. Why try to find people in bars or churches when you will rarely visit those establishments after you are together? It is a kind of lie. Further I am old, but I enjoy a life's setting that is common to the young. Children, family living together. But here in the USA very few younger women who could provide me with that setting would consider marrying a substantially older man. But women abroad would.
Please share your thinking on this topic.