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The top reasons why women are unfaithful have been described as being mostly dictated by her emotions. They are listed as:

#1) Because of a lack of passion in her partner she becomes bored with him.
#2) To postpone her desire to end the relationship with her partner, she will prolong it by seeking comfort with another man.
#3) Because of the absense of her partner (long distance relationships), she gets lonely.
#4) To avoid being dumped by her partner, she looks for someone who she may be able to have a better relationship with.
#5) To end a bad relationship, she will let her partner know that she has cheated on him.
#6) Because she feels there is something missing in her relationship, she will look for what she feels she needs with someone else.
#7) For revenge or to get even because she feels she was wronged or mistreated.

Yes, Michael, very good list!

jadegil6 wrote:The top reasons why women are unfaithful have been described as being mostly dictated by her emotions. They are listed as:

#1) Because of a lack of passion in her partner she becomes bored with him.
#2) To postpone her desire to end the relationship with her partner, she will prolong it by seeking comfort with another man.
#3) Because of the absense of her partner (long distance relationships), she gets lonely.
#4) To avoid being dumped by her partner, she looks for someone who she may be able to have a better relationship with.
#5) To end a bad relationship, she will let her partner know that she has cheated on him.
#6) Because she feels there is something missing in her relationship, she will look for what she feels she needs with someone else.
#7) For revenge or to get even because she feels she was wronged or mistreated.

How can a woman be unfaithful? If she got all the love of a man? Nothing compare to a woman whose love is true and sincere.

#1 comes across as how a child might think. The child becomes disenchanted with the toy he or she has been given. So the child disgards the toy and finds another.

#2 comes across as completely selfish and deceitful. Pure ego.

#4 seems like what a petulant, immature, dizzy-headed 18 year old teen would do.

(Yes, men can -- and do -- do the very same as what one finds on this list.)

We -- all of us -- are fickle, shallow, and impatient. That is the other thing that comes to mind with #1 -- a lack of patience.

No relationship is going to be a thrill and kick/joy every week or every month. There will be doldrums. There will be dry spells. Maybe if the relationship has lost its zest or zing, one should look in the mirror? Is it really all the other person's fault?

This is why only the mature should commit, become engaged, marry. And one can only be mature if seeking first the Lord. "Unless the Lord builds the house, you labor in vain to build at all." This applies to physical structures, job undertakings, projects, plans. It certainly applies to the relationships between a man and a woman, a marriage, the having of children, a family.

Unless a neighborhood, community or society has stabil, mature couples and familes, that community and society fails.

Michael: What is the source of this "Top Reasons" list? Is it from the Philippines or from another country?

if i remember correctly, that list came from Yahoo news, so it was probably written by an American about women in the US, but it can and does cross international boundaries.

That stands to reason, Michael.

I don't think so if a true woman will be unfaithful to a man if the man shows faithfulness to her??????
I believe that if love begets love, so faithfulness begets faithfulness.

crisipicada wrote:I don't think so if a true woman will be unfaithful to a man if the man shows faithfulness to her??????
I believe that if love begets love, so faithfulness begets faithfulness.

I think that is true, to a degree. Beyond that, in some cases, it's just a matter of opportunity presents itself.

crisipicada wrote:I don't think so if a true woman will be unfaithful to a man if the man shows faithfulness to her??????
I believe that if love begets love, so faithfulness begets faithfulness.

You are correct about this, Crisi!