trying to find her

[sunnyd1967]

ok,im 43 single male that has been searching for my asain princess,i have tried cherry blossoms ,filipino heart ,cebuanas, and tagged in all over a 2 and half years i have talked to and tried to be scammed by at least a hundred women or more, which has got me to thinking are any of this ladies really wanting true love? i have friends that are married to filipinos and have been happyly married for years . so what im i doing wrong !!! ,i dont want to talk sex with them i think that is something between i man and woman after a relationship starts , i try to treat all with respect or my late grandma my come down from heaven a slap me around haha) im just starting to be confused,i know theses ladies have several pen-pals and that doesnt bother me ,because until you show someone in actions what you want and that you are serious then i feel they should keep there options open, like i said im just confused does any one have any advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im just a average guy , but i do believe a man and woman should do as the bible says in that we should love ,honor and cherish, and that god should be the foundation of any lasting relationship ,im i wrong here!!! well somebody pls explain to me what im doing wrong, i would rather be single than have one more american woman !!!! dont need the drama , ok so pls help confused out here ,thanks sorry i didnt know really how to write this my first forum of any kind in my life

[bluebird]

Trying to find her but never been finding
Trying to find her, just believing,
Trying to find her someone is waiting
Trying to find her keep on trusting.

Imagine the world is so huge
Imagine how far distance she is waiting,
Imagine chances is so small
For a certain woman be of you in all.

You keep on looking but never been able
Why not ask yourself if you do deserve her?
Are we prepared for a woman's love?
These qestions must answered from the bottom of your heart.

[Edwin]

"in all over a 2 and half years i have talked to and tried to be scammed by at least a hundred women or more,"

It sounds like you are careful with all these women, and that is a good idea!

Maybe you are trying too hard? I think Bluebird had a good idea about making yourself a deserving person, so that the ladies will be attracted to you. Grooming, deportment, cleansliness, clothing all have an important part to play. Then just being the kind of person someone would want to love is important. Being an interesting person so others will be interested would help. These are just ideas. Let God's Love shine through.