Sounds like Bigblastguy has some inside information! I am being funny!
He should just come out with it and let us know. Of course to answer the question; I really don't want to find an American Man!
If Bigblastguy really has some good information that might help a whole lot of filipinas on this site, so come out with it, Bigblastguy! Everyone has their own ideas, like lyrehc said, not everyone is interested in finding an American man, but some just want to have a husband so that they can be happy and comforted and live their lives with value. I've heard all kinds of ideas. Some want an American man because they like the babies that come from that union, and I think that is fine, myself, if that is what they want. Some want an American man because they want to come to American, and have the opportunity to work, make money, send some home, save some for their own marriage, and I think that is fine too as long as each partner understands what the other has in mind and is happy about it. If I were free to marry, which I am not because I am married, but that would not bother me in the least as long as I was convinced that the young lady loved me and I loved her. Some want an American man, but they want their man to come live in their country, and that is what happened with Carol's brother, and they have been very happy, extremely so, for 12 years, but he is dying which is sad, but he knows he is going to be with Jesus now, so he is happy about that. I do love filipino people, and I have lots of connections; people who have married filipino people and are very happy. I like it that so many of them have faith in God, and live their lives based on God's laws. I like the attitudes that they have that are family oriented, and the fact that they stick with each other. I just like their culture period. I like it that they have so much love in their hearts, and I don't care if they do have a little jealously as that just proves they love more and don't want to share their mate with others. I think everyone wins in this kind of a union.