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"LOVE is Indespensable"

PostPosted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 4:24 am
by chaychay644
It’s just simply amazing how people learn to love. Though. it's a fact that humans learn to love in the first place by the example and training of their parents. Children will learn the meaning of love if, in an environment of warm affection, they see their parents feed and protect them, communicate with them, and take a deep personal interest in them. They also learn to love when their parents teach them to observe sound principles of right and wrong.

Genuine love is more than just affection or sentiment. It consistently acts in the very best interests of others, even if they do not fully appreciate it at the time, which is often the case with children when loving discipline is involved. Sometimes, they misinterpret it, and have those thoughts in mind that their parent doesn’t love them.

It is a fact, that all humans have a hunger for love regardless of their age, culture language, or race. This is the most incredible type of hunger that we may ever feel during the entire life. In the sense, that whenever we got failed on our search for love, we become unhappy. Sad to say, there haven’t been any, medicine that have been created to relieve the sadness nor the heartache that one could feel.

But there are some who tend to gave emphasis on their wealth, power, fame, and sex rather than on the human need for warm, loving relationships. Many educators stress secular goals and careers, defining success primarily in those terms.

No matter how people define love, it just proves it all that Love is Indispensable.

Re: "LOVE is Indespensable"

PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2011 5:14 pm
by abufarsi
And here it is over a year since you have posted this and not a single reply.

Of course I agree that love is indispensable.

I would not agree that true love is "consistently acts in the very best interests of others". I would argue that true love is shown best when the actions of those loved best defends their relationships, their families, their children, their health, their soul. A lover is not a slave. The first person you should love is yourself. Life is about making compromises, choices. Nobody has a single person in his life he says he loves.

We have all met selfish people. I would argue that no love could survive unless some selfishness was not part of the bargain.

Love, like marriage, or who a husband or wife is, is not the same thing to any person or culture. Of course the word marriage means something different to a Filipino than an American as there is no divorce in the Philippines. Marriage means something quite different to the children of that marriage than those married.

Love itself changes with maturity. When young I felt love was overpowering. A rift in my soul. Deep urgency. Now older, my love is easy and natural. I don't worry about love, why love is only doing what is natural, considering who you love.

"wealth, power, fame, and sex"

Of course those without wealth, power, fame or sex appeal can find love. children are a good example. But this site is about romance, dates, pen pals with a Filipino mindset. I argue it is why you posted this was to find somebody with the same ideas of love as you. Romantic love has all those things above considered. It would be a surprise to nobody to suggest that women like life secure men and men like sexy women. Most relationships start out with some facet of those involved. Later, as time goes by, other things become far more important. I argue that most choose who to love, and then work to make that love more real, deeper, safer and rewarding.

Abu