Jaderune Pen Pals

I don't think that many of you know that I was in what I thought was a relationship with a girl I met in Cebu from late December of 2010 until April of this year. As it turned out, the girl who I was involved with turned out to be a scammer. I learned through one of her family members that she was engaged to three men at the same time, and she was dating several others, and on the prowl for more. As I learned of her deceit and deception, I made a decision to expose her for the scammer that she is, and I posted an album on my facebook showing her with other guys, and some screen capture shots of conversations she had with me about them. She admitted she had lied and used me. But she had set her sights on a new guy who she planned to meet on May 7 in Manila, and she did go there to meet him, and she spent two weeks with him. On the day they met, she had him attack me through emails. He is some sort of software designer, and apparantly he knows how to deluge someone with emails because I received over 4000 of them within a one hour time frame...until I learned how to block an email address from sending you emails. In some of those emails, he threatened my life, so it makes me wonder what sort of lies she must have told him about me for him to do something so extreme to a person he had never met. He continues to deluge the forum on a daily basis with posts and new topics that advertise merchandise and porn websites. But none of you ever see those because I delete them before they get published.
Yesterday, the girl decided that she was going to follow through with some threats she had made against me that she was going to get revenge against me for exposing her as the scammer she is to her friends and to some of the guys who she was also scamming. She told me that it was time for her to "play". So today, I have received numerous messages from some of my facebook friends that she has sent them a message thru some bogus facebook account that she has either made or has access to. She starts out in her message saying that I was too old for her, and that I was always controlling her, etc. Then she goes into a story about how I have created some porn website about her, and that she is humiliated by it, and that she is urging my friends to talk to me in order to convince me to remove the site. So she is basically doing her best to make me out as some sort of vindictive culprit, and herself as some innocent ex-girlfriend who I can't let go. My guess is that she is going to send Personal Messages to some of you as she has done to many of my facebook friends, and I am writing this to let you know that you may get a message (PM) from some girl who will tell you some story similar to what I have just described.
Best wishes to all of you, and I hope you never have to encounter a person like her. Anyone can be too trustful, and wind up being victimized, and that definitely includes me.

You have always shown yourself to be a straight shooter. You may count on my support.

I am very sorry that this has happened to you, Sir Michael! Thank you for warning everyone on the forum in case some of us gets PMs from her. It is sad when one human being will do something like that to another human being! I hope that this all gets resolved and goes away for you, so that you can have some peace of mind!

Thank you Smiley and Edwin for your encouragement. I will try to stay optimistic.

Yes, by all means, Sir Michael, stay optimistic! I am sorry for the damage, humiliation, and the loss for you. I hope and pray that things will turn around for you, and that you will find someone that will treat you right. Maybe someone will be just around the next corner, huh? Hopefully, and we have hope in life for better things, huh?

Men of all ages, esp those single. Be careful. Some women do it because in greed of money and material things. Some just want to play they like guys paying them special attention. I may say they are KSP. Sad that some use their brain and beauty in wrong way. Bitch.

You are right, Red, about the single gentlemen and ladies needing to be careful! Having greed of money and material things I think drives some. I have heard about some of them making a lot of money that way. They make the guy think that he is the special one, when he is just one of many that she is hoping will send her money. It happens the same with the gals only when the guys make the lady think she is the only one when she is one of many. It is very sad when the guy or the gal will make pretences and hurt other people!

Ouch! Sorry about that. But on the bright side, better to be done with a crazy woman before you waste more time and effort.

Yes, we all agree, BBG! I read people's experience with their immigration details for a while for the fun of it on visajourney. It was interesting and fun, but I got busy with other things and have not been back there for a while. I have no special need for that information other than just entertainment. Anyway I read a few horror stories on there about people in various stages of their immigration processes. Some of them who had really bad experiences, and it ended badly, others would write and tell them how lucky they were that it wasn't worse, and that they should be glad it was over, but I think they probably thought it was bad enough, but other people were just trying to make them feel better, and that is always nice!

jadegil6 wrote:Thank you Smiley and Edwin for your encouragement. I will try to stay optimistic.

Some people try to revenge because they are hurt. But since she is a scammer, I am on your side.