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Have you been lied? How do you deal with liars? So many liars in the world that need to be crashed and burned so theres more room for honest people in this world.

Yes, I have had people that I rented houses to who lied to me about their intentions. They would tell me what I wanted to hear, and I was gullible enough to believe them! I had more than one do it to me, which leads me to believe that there are more dishonest people in the world than there are honest people! I had one who promised to make things right with me, and I called her every so often. Carol told me that she was just lying to me, but I wanted to believe this woman, but now I believe Carol, because the woman never did make good, and I know she was lying to me all along, just stringing me along to keep me from taking measures to get my money from her. Well, I finally decided to let God deal with her, and he will. God will take care of me also, so she will have to deal with God on this and not me!

I have known Way to Many Liars in My Years .. Like Edwin said they want to string You along so they do not have to do anything in Life ..Edwin Take the Lady to Court if You have to .Which I think You Should . People think that Just Because I am a Christian they can take advantage of Me .. That should not happen ..I am a Strong Christian who looks for the good in Other People .. But Why should I pay for People to Lazy to work ?? I Don't anymore .. Let them get a Job and pay their own Bills ..Some even go to Church on Sunday .. But Just because they go to church does Not mean they are Christians ..Let their Actions speak for them

In theory, wayne, you are correct, and I feel much the same way, but there are other things that made me decide to go the route that I have. Lawyers and court costs are so expensive that I would first of all have to put out a huge amount of money, and that was my first deterent there. After I spent all that money then I would not get anything if that person didn't have anything, and people like that often don't have anything. I could get a judgement against her, and garnish her wages where she works, but I have studied that, and often what happens is that the person quits their job, and then your or my claim to their wages is finished. Then you have to go back to court each time the person gets another job. Often times the employer fires, lays off, terminates the employee because it is a hassle for the employer to garnish the wages for someone that is owed. Because of that I decided not to go after her, even though legally I could. I have good renters now, so it is turning around for me. I just hope my good renters stay with me a long time, and I think they will. If ever I need to find another renter I just need to manage differently! You are right though in your estimation.

red wrote:Have you been lied? How do you deal with liars? So many liars in the world that need to be crashed and burned so theres more room for honest people in this world.

Yes, Red. A lot of people have been lied to me , not ones, not twice but more than I expect.

My first online man talked promised me to marry, give good life, only me, and no other. But sad to say, he sent me wrong message on yahoomessenger and that crashed me. He was Christian, he said, but why he did that.

I feel sad when the person is talking me like that or promising me like that. I would prefer to talk socially, knowing each other and treating as friend or brother in Christ. Also, I would love to talk more about what he learned about the scripture rather than arguing or agree or disagree on thought. My heart will be far from that person who argue with me, rather than giving insites and makes me think if i will agree or not.

Also, I would be glad to talk about hopes and desires, so that I would be able to know if the person that i am talking is what i desire rather than telling me to work, to study, to do this or do that. Or promising me things.

Anyway, the other one is that, he talked to a lot of women and promising the same thing.

The other one, said, i am "the one" but I am afraid of that. Because, it takes time to gain my heart and I need to know the person well. While into relationship, I can hardly share my feelings because he might not be able to back up my emotional need. While in friendship, i can tell all my feelings because I believe the person i share wont care how i feel because we are just friends and he is just there to listen. And who knows i will fall for him anyway.

The other one, he said, he was divorced but was not, he said, he has no communication with his ex wife then but having sex beefore we talk to while we talk because his ex wife email me that i will go away. Ouch i just want to share my bad experience here.

Well, there are a lot of women who are good in internet talking to foreigner and try to dig money online. I knew one. She also suggested me to talk to different men that is why i am hurt online. Well, as time goes by my heart is like a rock now, do not know if i still believe to the lies of men online. That is why I try to treat men online as a friend or brother when in case someone send me message. But i do not want to waste time anymore. Better to share my thought here and who knows, when someone who post here and i will like him and be inlove then, that would be good.

honestly speaking yes i lied a lot started it when high school. every time me and my friends go to a mall and to my friend house. my mom scolded me every time i go home late i just say that im with friends and doing some homework or doing project hahahaha then my mom wont scold me again coz she understand that. but one day she went to our school she get my schedule to one of my classmates then after that she find me where i am until she got home and im not there, when i got home my mom face looks terrible grrr.. she grounded me at high school she is there before my class over. she pick me up so i regret it.

angel wrote:honestly speaking yes i lied a lot started it when high school. every time me and my friends go to a mall and to my friend house. my mom scolded me every time i go home late i just say that im with friends and doing some homework or doing project hahahaha then my mom wont scold me again coz she understand that. but one day she went to our school she get my schedule to one of my classmates then after that she find me where i am until she got home and im not there, when i got home my mom face looks terrible grrr.. she grounded me at high school she is there before my class over. she pick me up so i regret it.

You know, at that age in high school, we love to go out of the house, have fun and enjoy life. We go with friends, with classmates and eating and drinking outside. But it is not really good to lie to our parents anyway. It is good that our parents especially our mother care a lot. They scold us because they wanted us to be safe and try to protect us, right? So we must be thankful for that.

when i reminisce my high school life (sigh) super happy moments even my mom's drop by at school before my last subject, she's like my sister at that time she's go wherever we goes im so happy to for what i did my mom and i got so close, whatever secrets i have she knows it.

angel wrote:when i reminisce my high school life (sigh) super happy moments even my mom's drop by at school before my last subject, she's like my sister at that time she's go wherever we goes im so happy to for what i did my mom and i got so close, whatever secrets i have she knows it.

I appreciate that kind of relationship. How I wish I am like that or have that relationship to my mother.

That is why, when God leads me to marry and have kids, I would be glad to be closed to my kids and let them pour out their concerns at heart to me and be able to be a good listener to them. I want that closeness and intimacy for my future kids.

Of course, I desire to be a godly mother to them in the future.

m&m wrote:I appreciate that kind of relationship. How I wish I am like that or have that relationship to my mother.

That is why, when God leads me to marry and have kids, I would be glad to be closed to my kids and let them pour out their concerns at heart to me and be able to be a good listener to them. I want that closeness and intimacy for my future kids.

Of course, I desire to be a godly mother to them in the future.

not all of the child have a good or closest to their mother as what i did since i lied im thankful of it for some reasons weve been close and we used to bonding everytime happy to be with her all the time im so blessed to have a mother like her.