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How many of you heard this line, "I try to gain your heart by giving all what you want, but seems you are so hard to get". I heard that in fact, I have observed that to many married couples. A woman's heart is not to be bought, it is to take care and nourish. It is about taking care of what you say and not just what you give. it is about enhancing her life by motivating and encouraging her to what she desire. More than that, she needs a listening heart when she is sad or worried.

It is my greatest desire to find a husband who is my friend, my best friend, my loving husband, because, I can pour out my heart to him and he listens to me. What a wonderful relationship, when somebody is just to be there for you and telling you that "All will be okay". What a comforting words to hear someone from your love one.

It is better to live in the corner of a housetop/attic, than to live with a brawling woman, Solomon said in Proverbs, but a good woman's value is far above rubies! A good woman is invaluable. There is no value that can be placed on a good woman. In a relationship that God is pleased with, the man and the woman give themselves to each other because they love one another, and it is what God wants them to do! God is not please when a man or a woman has to pay for sex! God is not pleased when sex is the result of blackmale. Sex is not something that should be bargained for, or bartered for. You do not have sex with your husband because he took out the garbage; you have sex with him because you love him, whether he took out the garbage or not. If he loves you, he will take out the garbage, and then your sex is based on something much more noble than the garbage! The guy buys the gal a nice meal, and maybe he spends money on her in others ways, buying her presents, jewelry, and flowers. Does that mean that she has to give him sex? No!

What you are saying Crisi, is that a loving husband is supposed to be there for moral support, to give comfort and encouragement, and to lift you up when you are down. To tell you, "Everything is going to be okay!" Many people thing they can buy their children with expensive gifts, and that is not what the children need, or are even looking for. They are looking for love and leadership. They are often looking for boundaries to be set; to be told "You can't do this, because if you do it will damage you!" A husband or a wife can't be bought by the other person. You can't say, "Look what I have done for you; look what I have bought you; you owe me some things, so now come through for me." No, that is the wrong approach! I love you, and you love me, so we do things for each other, and we are there for each other!

A virtuous woman's worth is far above rubies! The value of each soul is also of inestimal value. Every soul is worth more than the value of the entire world! Think about that! You are worth more than the value of the entire world. Jesus said, "What can a man give in exchange for his soul?" "For what shall it profit a man if he shall gain the whole world and lose his own soul, or what can a man give in exchange for his soul? There is no profit to gaining the whole world and losing one's own soul!

Edwin wrote:A virtuous woman's worth is far above rubies! The value of each soul is also of inestimal value. Every soul is worth more than the value of the entire world! Think about that! You are worth more than the value of the entire world. Jesus said, "What can a man give in exchange for his soul?" "For what shall it profit a man if he shall gain the whole world and lose his own soul, or what can a man give in exchange for his soul? There is no profit to gaining the whole world and losing one's own soul!

The woman who learn to love the man with her whole heart is worth more than a million times of the world. So guys, just be patient to find the woman of your love. As for me, if I commit to marriage, the man will never regret because I will devout my love and time to him and our blessed kids by the Father....

Crisi, you are noble, and our world would be a better place if there were more people like you! Who ever ends up with you will be the luckiest, or most blessed person on earth, because what more could anyone want than to have devition and faithfulness, and that person truly will not be sorry! It is wonderful to know that someone loves you and they they will stick by your side, good, bad, or whatever comes, they will be there!

Today I had a thought. In the past I used very much to look in nature, among God's creations, with the purpose of finding an answer to my questions. Romans had the expression, "simia naturae", monkeying nature. So, for every question I had, there was something in nature that worked the same and could answer my question for analogy.

So, today I was remembering the old discussions about guarding one's heart, watching one's words, not believing in the deceitful emotions, etc. But the image that came to my mind was that of planting a tree and letting it grow. So I thought: love does not come out of nothing. You have to plant the seed, nourish it, feed it with water. And when it grows, it still needs lot of water, sun, good soil. If all this is missing, how do we go from the seed to the high tree? So this brings me to question again the same topic.

Yes, either a wife is worthless, or she is priceless! I am just kidding really! There is value in everyone if we look hard enough. The ones that we don't think as much of do have some great qualities if we would just encourage those, and then we might find some of the other areas improving if would be more positive! We can either see the glass as being half full or half empty! Some words of encouragement, and some positive tips might go a long way towards getting what we want without actually asking for it. We could either say, "hey, why can't you ever get it right; why don't you do this!" Or we can say "I really like it when you do this, or you will get it right soon!"

crisipicada wrote:How many of you heard this line, "I try to gain your heart by giving all what you want, but seems you are so hard to get". I heard that in fact, I have observed that to many married couples. A woman's heart is not to be bought, it is to take care and nourish. It is about taking care of what you say and not just what you give. it is about enhancing her life by motivating and encouraging her to what she desire. More than that, she needs a listening heart when she is sad or worried.

It is my greatest desire to find a husband who is my friend, my best friend, my loving husband, because, I can pour out my heart to him and he listens to me. What a wonderful relationship, when somebody is just to be there for you and telling you that "All will be okay". What a comforting words to hear someone from your love one.

Again, it makes so good someone to talk anything, just talking and talking while the other is just listening and listening. It makes my heart attach and close. I really miss my mom talking.

love is priceless coz no one can buy this. a love of a parents, wife, husband, sisters, brothers, relatives, friends, and boy or girl friend is priceless you cant tell to someone you better love me i give you money or whatever you want she / he may accept the money but the love for you can give you like a stuff but you have to gain it. its a long term process to love someone its not easy.