what would you choose LOVE or MONEY?

[cheryz]

Do you think that nowadays money are the most important things around which everything revolves, or do you think that when Love is present, money are not needed at all. Why?

For my opinion... nowadays money are the most important thing. But most of the people are looking for money, not love. They think these things are the same . But money are money, it gives us a power, but love is love, it gives us happiness.

[red]

I choose LOVE. You can earn money even you are not in intimate relationship. Money should be earned by hard work and not by "love". Just imagine this hooking up with someone or living with somebody who is rich and can treat you like an animal, hollering you hurting words.

[cheryz]

You have a point red . Thanks for your opinion really appreciate it.
Happy to know there still some people who choose love only. Me i choose both
Love for the right guy for the right time.
Money to support my family

[crisipicada]

Do you think that nowadays money are the most important things around which everything revolves, or do you think that when Love is present, money are not needed at all. Why?

For my opinion... nowadays money are the most important thing. But most of the people are looking for money, not love. They think these things are the same . But money are money, it gives us a power, but love is love, it gives us happiness.

Each of us have different love life story. Some people got married at early age and some are at their past 30's or 40's.

In my opinion, your question is out of context when it comes to love life or getting married.

When we talk about Scriptural Basis when it comes to love life or having intention to get married, it is important to search your heart when it is right before the Lord.

For Christian, it is important to know the will of God. It is important to ask the Lord and His guidance through the word of God.

God has already map out our life, He already have plan for each of us. We only need to know what it is through talking to Him in prayer and as He talks to us through His word.

TO be specific, Christian must marry someone who loves the Lord. Someone must choose to marry someone who knows in His heart what God wants for him/her. Like, to be a devoted husband or wife, to be godly and loving. Being godly simply means, loyalty, devoted, trustworthy, loving, sincere. For women, she must desire to love her husband and be true to him. So with the husband, who is devoted, loving and able to provide for his family.

Regarding, your question, LOVE or MONEY, the Bible clearly states that, the top priority in searching for someone is to be godly one. If you desire to live a life that is according to the will of God - that includes living a life holy because He is holy as He commanded as to be holy, to be true and sincere, be faithful and honest, then , He will guide you in the right way.

Sex is not love neither love is sex. While dating, one should desire to keep the heart pure, clean and out of lust. Learn to love someone, as he or she loves the Lord. Develop and cultivate relationship as you go into the direction of seeking God first in your life. In the right time and in the right person, you will be happy with your marriage life and that includes being physically attached to your husband or wife.

Regarding money, do not love the person simply because he or she can provide for you. YOu love him because of who he or she is. But the Bible is clear that the husband must be the head of the family, the provider and the protector of the family, hence the man has no right to ask the woman's heart if he cannot provide for his family.

Always remember that in any relationship, let the Lord be the center of it and develop a relationship closer to God and I believe it will always end up joy and happiness and you wont regret it. Seek Him first and He will give you the desires of your life.

Remember, He knows what is best for us. Try to build trust in time, and when you learn to trust someone, or someone had trusted you, never betray because it is hard to build trust again for the second time or even third time.

[cheryz]

a very inspiring message crisi thank you for that.
maybe it depends on our life story. for me nowadays some girls do some work to provide and support there family what there daily needs instead of there husband. some of wife depends on there husband but some are not, they want to work hard for there family. and first of all you should put God in center of your life through thick or thin we should trust in him.

[lyrehc]

Will in my own opinion, honestly money is more needed than love lately, but others chose love instead. To be honest to all everyone needed money and love is a second choice now a days, example will you still chose love when someone is dying??? of course money is needed there....for love, its hard to find the one that will truly loves you some chose money instead of love.....money works for every one (this is my opinion) that's not a fact its reality . You cant buy love but with money you can buy everything, you can own everything but not happiness....but for me to chose money or love i chose both

[red]

Providing somebody in dire need in form of money is an act of love. I think it depends on situation. If it is for marriage I choose love. I can't imagine living with somebody who is rich but without feeling of affection or attraction/love. Usually it will lead to extra affair.

[cheryz]

thanks lyrech for your opinion very much appreciated

thats right red it depends in every situation that we encounter in our lives.

ill survey some women about love or money they choose money first instead of love they said..
nowadays you have to be practical they work and work and do lot of business for there families sake.
and love has the right time to come in there life but keep on believing in God always.

[m&m]

I was thinking, you choose someone who is rich yet you do not love, or someone who is not rich or no money but you love him or her.

For me, getting into marriage, it must be prepared financially. Can you afford to see your children starving and your wife is sick and yet you can do nothing because you have no money.

Marriage is for mature people. If you are married, it is for a life time. That is what I believe. Because it is holy union. The wife should love his husband so with his husband to his wife.

Money is important. It is the basic need to use as exchange of any good or commodities. That is why, the heart is very deceitful. Sometimes, you do not think, in entering marriage without any preparation, even financial need. Some says, "well I love her or him, but later on realize love fades due to financial need".

So it takes wisdom to get married, wisdom to have good decision to get married. Be prepared heartily,financially, emotionally and spiritually.

Love and money is not an issue as long as you are prepared for it.

[lyrehc]

I was thinking, you choose someone who is rich yet you do not love, or someone who is not rich or no money but you love him or her.

For me, getting into marriage, it must be prepared financially. Can you afford to see your children starving and your wife is sick and yet you can do nothing because you have no money.

Marriage is for mature people. If you are married, it is for a life time. That is what I believe. Because it is holy union. The wife should love his husband so with his husband to his wife.

Money is important. It is the basic need to use as exchange of any good or commodities. That is why, the heart is very deceitful. Sometimes, you do not think, in entering marriage without any preparation, even financial need. Some says, "well I love her or him, but later on realize love fades due to financial need".

So it takes wisdom to get married, wisdom to have good decision to get married. Be prepared heartily,financially, emotionally and spiritually.

Love and money is not an issue as long as you are prepared for it.

m&m is right, being prepared is best than being hopeless....money and love works as a team... being prepared is more important and wisdom and faith go with it. love is a gift but if you never used your wisdom it will be dangerous and deadly hahaha ........... the thing is..........love and money is never an issue just let the Lord will be done.