Separated...

[crisipicada]

I just want to brought this topic regarding separated men who are looking for a woman or just finding or searching someone in the midst of uncertainty with their current wife or girlfriend.

I am not sure why men are trying to find someone while they are still in their relationship. I do not know what they are trying to prove or what they are looking for.

I read many stories along the way, that they have been hurt, tired of the game, may sad stories, and sometimes, they do not know what they want in their lives.

If that is the case, without certainty, with the woman who learn to love you, and later on you realize that you wanted to stay with your wife or current girlfriend, and the one who has been kind and true to you feel sad and hurt, realizing that you just use her to fill the emptiness in your life. That would be devastating to women whom you have hurt.

On the other hand, to men who are desperately searching for someone while they are not yet ready for commitment, why you are doing that? What are you looking for? Is there fear or sadness in your heart that you are still holding on with the present?

Can anyone wants to share their stories, or observations with these guys?

Thanks for your contribution.

[cheryz]

thats right crisi i also eagerly wanted to know about that!
can some men answers it please!!!

for me some reasons of men (base on my opinion)
in reality many men seeking other women or younger girls than there wives (i hear some stories about it)
they cheat (i dont know the reasons why?)
misunderstanding of couple
lack of communication to each other
dont have time to talk, sex and dates (always work work & work!)
money matters....

just add some reasons why.. (want to know)

[m&m]

thats right crisi i also eagerly wanted to know about that!
can some men answers it please!!!

for me some reasons of men (base on my opinion)
in reality many men seeking other women or younger girls than there wives (i hear some stories about it)
they cheat (i dont know the reasons why?)
misunderstanding of couple
lack of communication to each other
dont have time to talk, sex and dates (always work work & work!)
money matters....

just add some reasons why.. (want to know)

There are people what we call "Sigurista". When it comes to business, it is what we call, "Safety Net". If this wont work, then use another way.

There are people also who are critical in spirit. They become judgmental and wanted to control someone. He or she might try to manipulate the person. This kind of person does not deserve love. Not only that, he deceive himself first. The bad thing is that, when someone is being fooled and believe the lies behind his promises. How sad.

[cheryz]

i hate controlling someone... its just unfair to one another!
ive know stories almost men manipulating there wives to get what they want and i hate it! nowadays you better depend yourself to the man who is manipulator because in the end you will suffer