Jaderune Pen Pals

This subject are dedicated for our past love..say what you want to say to them..


The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. Maybe they always have been and will be. Maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we've found each other. And maybe each time, we've been forced apart for the same reasons. That means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come.

“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven? And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives? When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see in truth that you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”
— Kahlil Gibran

Goodbyes... 'in a relationship' it means for me letting go the feelings the pain, acceptance and moving on for the next days is waiting for a new beginning. sometimes its hard to say goodbyes to the one you love especially you love each and you will make it for the happiness of others, its too painful.

this is how i say it..

goodbyes are well said with this...

Sometimes goodbye doesn't mean forever but for now it means you will move on to new chapter of your life, you may walk through different paths but in time you meet each other again.

How sad it is to say goodbye and leave that promises floating in the sky...how cruel will it be to say goodbye and leave that broken heart apart...goodbye is the saddest way of saying thank you..feel the pain that will last long but that same feeling will always have hidden a truth... in saying goodbye there is also freedom..

Goodbyes has different meanings in every situation, it seems to say goodbye for a friend,co-workers, family, best friends and special someone. it can maybe happy, sad or hard to let go but in the end you will embrace it for this happen for a reason.

angel wrote:Goodbyes has different meanings in every situation, it seems to say goodbye for a friend,co-workers, family, best friends and special someone. it can maybe happy, sad or hard to let go but in the end you will embrace it for this happen for a reason.

Yes, it has different meanings. But in terms of relationship, I believe that goodbye means see you later. When times you needed to break up, then it could be better to just friends. Like my sister, when she was engaged to a guy but it wasn't mean for her, then they remain friends. They still have good relationship and no string attached to each other. That is where Christian love is all about.

Its hard to have friends with your ex's especially when you dont understand each other when you meet in public place id rather not to say hi than to be plastic in facing you. Only trying to move on even the pain and hurst is still there, maybe time can heal but the past wont change.