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I have been into relationship that did not last. I feel frustrated when I learn to love someone but in the end it did not work. Kind of frustrating sometimes that you have invested emotions, time, money and most of all energy and shared life. When you love someone, is it enough to marry someone? Our culture would say, "if you love someone, then why not marry?" Guys and girls what are your thoughts on this?

I will answer the question with a question, too. If a woman and man fall in love at early age like 15 years old, will they get marry? Do you think it is wise to get married right away? If a woman and man love each other and have a baby at age 13, like what I saw on television last week, did they make a right decision?/what kind of life do they have? Think about it? Is love enough to marry someone because two people "fall in love and it feels good"?

There are a lot of 40 year olds trapped in lives that seemed like a good idea to a 17 year old.

Seven years ago I was working in Temple, Texas and staying in a motel. I would eat out for dinner, and many times I would go to McDonalds because they had free wifi and salads. There was a young teenage girl working there at the counter who would always take my order, and she was very friendly and attentive. There were a group of teenage boys who would frequent the place, and once a couple of them were playing hackysack (it's like a small bean bag) near where I was sitting. They unintentionally kicked it towards me, and it landed between my back and my chair. One of the boys shyly approached and I gave him back the bag. Before he left, he saw that I was on facebook, and asked me if I would add him as a friend. I said, yes. As I would sometimes check out his profile, I saw that he became engaged to that sweet girl who worked there, and they had a son. They were both around 16 or 17 at the time. They are married, and are still together, and appear happy as they can be to have one another, and a child. Sometimes, a youthful age is not that big of a factor.

When you are ready for it, and take responsibility, I believe you won't regret. However, when you are not, there is always feeling of regret. Regret is always at the end. Maybe just make it right even a person have done choices he regret.

Is LOVE enough to marry someone .... hmmm Yes its kind of awkward to marry to someone whom your not inlove with But hey not on the rush. Sometimes it takes time to know the person better so you may know the good side and bad side with each other because in the end you will be hurt if your married life would be fail. And there it goes the regret why i made the rush decision. Sometimes maturity helps . Ive regret so much things decisions in my life but made me strong person

For me, consider the WHY you marry the person and you will know WHO to marry.

Why do you think you marry him? Or her? Because, he is the one who possesses the personality you desire. Why marry him? Because he is kind, loving, responsible, patient, respectful etc. The same with the woman you like or desire to marry. Why marry her? Because you know her character and accept her or him his flaws and goodness. I believe settle for why you want to marry him/ her and you will know why you are going to marry him/her.