Rekindling old feelings

[crisipicada]

A friend of mine had a conversation with him this morning. Sharing and reminishing past experiences while we where college. He asked me about our friend whom he had relationship with. And for a long time they were into relationship eventually break up. He confessed, he saw her at Market while buying at wet market. Feelings rekindle.

Another situation also, while in the bank deposit collection, trainee ask me about a certain guy feom our place. She said, "naku po nasasaktan lang ako dahil binabalik ko ang nakaraan". Means, "oh no I just feel pain thinking about our past". i believe you can relate to this.

When you have a relationship with a person, do you feel hurt or is feelings going back because of your past? Or how would you move on and just forget it? Do you feel the same?

That is why, it is better not to be into relationship if you know you wont be to be married because it hurts and take energy. Any thoughts and sharing is your experience and ideas is very much welcome. Thank you.

[Chas]

A friend of mine had a conversation with him this morning. Sharing and reminishing past experiences while we where college. He asked me about our friend whom he had relationship with. And for a long time they were into relationship eventually break up. He confessed, he saw her at Market while buying at wet market. Feelings rekindle.

Another situation also, while in the bank deposit collection, trainee ask me about a certain guy feom our place. She said, "naku po nasasaktan lang ako dahil binabalik ko ang nakaraan". Means, "oh no I just feel pain thinking about our past". i believe you can relate to this.

When you have a relationship with a person, do you feel hurt or is feelings going back because of your past? Or how would you move on and just forget it? Do you feel the same?

That is why, it is better not to be into relationship if you know you wont be to be married because it hurts and take energy. Any thoughts and sharing is your experience and ideas is very much welcome. Thank you.

Remember the joy at the beginning and not the pain at the end.

[cheryz]

if you both single why not, try give a second chance to each other if love is still there.

[crisipicada]

I believe love is being develop overtime. When you have feelings at first, I believe it is just still infatuation. When you build your relationship through kindness, thoughtful acts and words, encouraging words and advice, these are the ways you can trust and build relationship. There might be love, but if no relationship, it is still not right. Like Jesus Christ, He loves us sinners, but people who do not accept HIm as their personal Lord and Savior has no relationship at all. Love needs to cultivate, and it takes time and act of love.

[angel]

Remember the joy at the beginning and not the pain at the end.

You have a point Chas. Maybe if all the lovers would think about that maybe less divorce. remembering the joy instead of pain but what if the pain is very painful that really hurts much?

[fhel]

Anything that comes into life is being registered in the subconscious mind. Things are being forgotten, can still be retrieve because our mind is like a computer that registers data. It can be saved and retrieved anytime. Old feelings is there, new feelings is saved at present and still working at present. Someone came to life is a part that cannot be deleted. Old feelings is still there. Never get tired of loving someone you love and nourish the relationship with love and care.Put this in mind that anything you effort for it is worthwhile, anything you register in relationship is being saved at the back of the head. What does it means by this? Positive thoughts and words is important. Anything negativity that comes to relationship will lead to negativity of relationship. A relationship full of complaining will result to complaining because both does not like what is going in life. When both are happy about the relationship, both will respond happy relationship also.