10 Emotional Needs

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10 Emotional Needs

Postby Nari » Thu Dec 19, 2019 8:38 pm

List below are the 10 different emotional needs of person. In a relationship, it is vital to know about what kind of emotional needs that your relation has and that needs to meet or fulfill. Studies shows that neglecting these needs may end up the relationship and the tendency that the other or your partner will fall to other man or woman who will meet these needs. Men has different emotional needs compare to women. Psychologist says women's top emotional need is affection while men's top emotional need is sex. While the husband is doing all in his power to make her partner happy and yet there is something wrong. Affection, in the sense that, women needs to hear the words "I love you", "I miss you", "How are you doing today", "I can't wait to see you", "I want to live my life with you", also affection like holding hands, hugging and comforting. When the guy heart women's emotionally, physically, and mentally, the love bank that suppose the guy needs to fill in in women's heart is not being fulfilled. The same true as men. In relationship, women on the other hand needs to meet the needs of men. So much to say, here are the emotional needs of mean and women, not necessarily in order, for it depends on the needs of each person.

His Needs
1. Sex
2. Attractive Spouse
3. Recreational Companionship
4. Domestic
5. Admiration

Her Needs
1. Affection
2. Honesty/ Oppenness
3. Intimate Conversation
4. Financial Support
5. Family Commitment
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Re: 10 Emotional Needs

Postby Nari » Sat Dec 28, 2019 7:37 pm

Most women want to be with a man who is confident and secure in himself. They want a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to go after it. Someone who will lead the way and show her he’s going to take care of her, regardless of her actions.

Experts say girls are drawn to a man who is emotionally sound and not men who are weak; that’s a turnoff.

Be careful because this isn’t the man who is full of himself and comes across as arrogant. Women want a man who is confident and secure, relaxed and has a belief in who he is and what he wants to accomplish in life.

According to studies, many men wonder if they should keep in contact with their ex or cut all ties forever. Of course, that’s up to each guy individually.

If you believe you want to get your ex back, then you’ll need to keep in contact with her. You need to show her you really want a shot at giving her the experience she wants from a man.

Texting will work to a degree but that gets cloudy fast and really isn’t personal. You’re better to pick up the phone and give her a call or better yet, meet her face to face when you can.

If your ex is willing to connect with you on any level, that means the door is still open. She will be attracted to you if you make her feel excited and alive with your newfound confidence. This will draw her to you more.

Many men might wonder how they are going to reach out and get with their ex. This is a process and it’s got a lot of risks. So, it’s up the guy to put the idea out there of getting back together and proving to his ex that it’s worth a shot. Don’t make the mistake of pushing yourself on her. Dangle the carrot and let her decide the rest with a little positive persuasion from you.

True love is certainly blind!

When we are in a loving relationship, we try and make the best decisions we can. However, more often than not, we let our heart think instead of our head, and that’s rarely a good thing.

This is where you need to listen to what your date is talking about. Does it feel like they are always talking about their ex? Are they making you feel like you are in therapy with them? If this is the situation, you need to immediately draw the line.

This is a tough one to spot sometimes, so be very aware. If you are dating someone who has been single for a long time and they are still upset about their ex, you need to consider you might be a rebound.

Normally, this type of pissed-off attitude has deeply hidden anger. When someone still has strong negative feelings for their ex, that’s a danger sign, and you need to quietly excuse yourself and walk away.
When this happens, your date is indicating they need a friend, not a love interest. Pay attention to this red flag and you’re going to save yourself a lot of heartache.

No relationship, new or old, moves forward without a few bumps in the road. That’s natural. But if you happen to have a disagreement with this guy or girl and they always bring up the opinion of their ex, you better do a double take.

“Oh, she always did it this way.”

“Funny, that’s not what he told me.”

You get the idea.

This type of past talk indicates your date might not be truly over their ex.

Heck, relationships of any kind aren’t easy. What’s important is you understand the process of a breakup and how to ease yourself into the perfect relationship for you when you are ready.
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