THE PAST NEED NOT DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE!

[m&m]

WE HAVE CHOICES RIGHT NOW ABOUT HOW WE'LL LIVE . PAST IS PAST! DON'T LET THE PAST BEAT YOU UP! FORGET IT MOVE ON! WHATEVER YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES REMEMBER THAT THE WORLD IS ROUND!

[chaychay644]

WE HAVE CHOICES RIGHT NOW ABOUT HOW WE'LL LIVE . PAST IS PAST! DON'T LET THE PAST BEAT YOU UP! FORGET IT MOVE ON! WHATEVER YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES REMEMBER THAT THE WORLD IS ROUND!

Yeah,,I agree to that..if someone has an unforgettable and an acceptable past..let it buried 10 feet below the ground..and don't let ruin your future..forget about it and move on..

[Chas]

Good advice. However, have no secrets from your partner. If in the past you have done something of which you are not proud, at some point you must let your partner know or you lay yourself open to blackmail. The past should be the past, but it may come back to haunt you!

If you tell your partner your dark secret and it wrecks that relationship, it is for the best and indicates the relationship was not strong enough in the first place. If it comes out in the future it will only bring misery. If your partner accepts what has happened is in the past, you should be on your way to a strong enduring relationship.

[crisipicada]

Good advice. However, have no secrets from your partner. If in the past you have done something of which you are not proud, at some point you must let your partner know or you lay yourself open to blackmail. The past should be the past, but it may come back to haunt you!

If you tell your partner your dark secret and it wrecks that relationship, it is for the best and indicates the relationship was not strong enough in the first place. If it comes out in the future it will only bring misery. If your partner accepts what has happened is in the past, you should be on your way to a strong enduring relationship.

Yes, it is very true that both must be honest and sincere in their communication. It is very hard fooling around by someone else. You don't realize how much you have cause pain and brings misery if one or the other are not honest enough. There maybe tough times in a relationship, but it is just testing time how much you can stand and the love you have for each other. For the women side, i believe that if she love much the guy, even how much he hurt , still the love remains. How about on the men side? could that possible?

[Chas]

Yes, it is very true that both must be honest and sincere in their communication. It is very hard fooling around by someone else. You don't realize how much you have cause pain and brings misery if one or the other are not honest enough. There maybe tough times in a relationship, but it is just testing time how much you can stand and the love you have for each other. For the women side, i believe that if she love much the guy, even how much he hurt , still the love remains. How about on the men side? could that possible?

Yes - this is not gender specific - if the situation is reversed and the girl hurts the guy, the guy can still have strong feelings for the girl. Sometimes the love was so strong the rejected person is unable to have a relationship with anybody else and it impacts the rest of their life. Unfortunately that strong love can also turn to hate in the person who was rejected and that is very destructive. Finding your soulmate can be tough, it is easy to say do not dwell on the past, but it is difficult to do that when you have had strong feelings for somebody.

[crisipicada]

Yes, it is very true that both must be honest and sincere in their communication. It is very hard fooling around by someone else. You don't realize how much you have cause pain and brings misery if one or the other are not honest enough. There maybe tough times in a relationship, but it is just testing time how much you can stand and the love you have for each other. For the women side, i believe that if she love much the guy, even how much he hurt , still the love remains. How about on the men side? could that possible?

Yes - this is not gender specific - if the situation is reversed and the girl hurts the guy, the guy can still have strong feelings for the girl. Sometimes the love was so strong the rejected person is unable to have a relationship with anybody else and it impacts the rest of their life. Unfortunately that strong love can also turn to hate in the person who was rejected and that is very destructive. Finding your soulmate can be tough, it is easy to say do not dwell on the past, but it is difficult to do that when you have had strong feelings for somebody.

It is very, and only time can heal. I believe that there is really meant for you and for me and for everybody. It might be hard to find another one but in due time, the right one will come along

[lovelessgurl87]

but how u can forget d past wen it cost u so much pain in ur heart..they say time heal all wounds.. how long does it takes to heal? most of dem say move on and just forget.. but wen as tym goes by, the pain stils remain aND STRONG.. how can u move on? specially everytym and evry sides where u can see reminds of d pain dat has cost u..

[crisipicada]

but how u can forget d past wen it cost u so much pain in ur heart..they say time heal all wounds.. how long does it takes to heal? most of dem say move on and just forget.. but wen as tym goes by, the pain stils remain aND STRONG.. how can u move on? specially everytym and evry sides where u can see reminds of d pain dat has cost u..

It is very true. That's i cannot answer. Maybe the best thing to do is to help God for guidance and forgetfulness of the past and be busy to make you forget them all.