Yes, Wayne, rushing could prove disasterous! It mostlly depends on the situation and the people involved. There is no hard and fast rule here. For some it works wonderfully, and for some it is a mistake. We did it so quickly that Carol was accused of being pregnant, the reason we got married, but no we were married for 2 years before having any children. We did set a record for speed from the time we knew each other until we got married, but we vaguely knew who each other were all our lives.