""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

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""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby chaychay644 » Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:00 am

I know that most of you may agree with the above statement. This expression is very common to us and we often used that expression in order to express our own ideas or beliefs on a particular situation. Many people believe that this expression is of greater determinant of behavior and character of ones person.

Sometimes we often talk about our dreams in life. What we wanted to be in the future. But it takes a lot of courage for us to to take the many small steps that lead to bringing our dreams into reality. If all we ever do is talk about it, we begin to lose faith in ourselves because nothing changes on the external level. In this way, being all talk and no action is actually a form of self-sabotage. It’s also useful to examine our actions to see if, through them, we are following through on our words. :roll: :roll: :roll:

Yes! We can say anything we wanted to say. But most often our actions are contrary of what we said. Just like for instance, someone told you that he/she likes you. But that person doesn’t even do anything to please you or communicate with you. Do you think you’ll believe that person on what he/she said? Definitely not! It would be hard for you to believe that, right? Through his actions (that he doesn’t communicate with you) it clearly tells you that his words are contrary to his actions. And it would be easier for you to decide on what to do. You could easily say that his words have a hollowness or empty quality. Bear in mind that people often judge other people on what they’ve done instead of what they said. :x :x :x

With this, we can say that there are lots of evidence that wherein “actions speaks louder than words” and this varies from certain circumstances. Make this expression as a guide in your daily lives, sure thing it would be a great help :roll: :roll: :roll:

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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby cutegen » Fri Oct 09, 2009 1:02 am

i really believe this too....
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby chaychay644 » Mon Oct 12, 2009 6:33 pm

cutegen wrote:i really believe this too....


thanks gen..this saying plays an important role in our life :roll: :roll: :roll: coz if we believe in what we always see through actions rather than on what we hear..then, I guess well be all happy :D :D :D
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby cheryz » Tue Dec 10, 2013 9:56 am

In this world where we live today, people tend to avoid paying attention to anyone who is talking, unless you have a good impression on them. Have you ever asked yourself why don’t we always believe words? I guess the reason of that is that words are alterable; we say something, and we change it the next minute right away. I therefore firmly believe that actions speak louder than words.

First of all, every single person on earth has the freedom to say whatever he/she wants, but it is not something guaranteed that everyone is going to believe you, or take you words into consideration. People nowadays are more likely to believe the language of the body, because it is the evident truth. For example; when someone runs for presidency; he wants to get people’s votes. Thus, he/she starts improving his/her image among people by visiting hospitals, making donations, and giving free stuffs away.

Furthermore; words don’t have the effect that actions do on people. Words are easier to forget, while actions can be forgotten that easy; actions would last forever if they had a great impression on us. It is also impossible to show people how truthful your words are without an evident action. For example; when you say ‘I missed you’ to a friend, and you haven’t even bothered yourself to pick up the phone to know how he/she was doing, then obviously these words are just lies. Hence, actions are more realistic when it comes to expressing our emotions.

To put it all in a nutshell, actions are the optimum way to make people believe you. Words could be a method to convey messages, but it’s not as efficient as actions.
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby Chas » Wed Dec 11, 2013 11:28 am

Off topic, but thought people might be interested to know that the original poster Chaychay and I think also the second poster Cutegen are married and living in the USA. I know for certain Chaychay is married, I believe Cutegen moved to the USA (Canada? Europe?) on a fiance visa so I guess she is married now, but it is just a guess. Two more successes for Jaderune.
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby jadegil6 » Wed Dec 11, 2013 9:53 pm

Cutegen is a friend of mine on facebook, and she is married to an American, and they live in Washington state.

I haven't heard from chaychay for a long time, and I am glad to hear she is now married. Thanks for the news.
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby cheryz » Thu Dec 12, 2013 9:07 am

i guess their busy now thats why they dont have time to open this forum and share their stories, anyways they meet the right man of their life now, i may not know them but i wish them a happy and blessed family. :)
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby angel » Mon Dec 16, 2013 8:55 pm

""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""
It basically means that what you do is more significant then what you say, for instance just because I say I will donate to charity doesn't mean anything, until I actually donate does anything come from it. ;)
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby cheryz » Fri Dec 20, 2013 10:53 am

thats right angel! its better to act than to hear from someone who dont actually do they saying. for example in a political campaign, they want to impress the people who they wanted to vote for them but eventually they dont give an action for every platform they plan for after the election, i dont pin point all the politician but some of them. ;)
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Re: ""ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS""

Postby lyrehc » Sat Dec 21, 2013 5:28 pm

You can say sorry a million times, say i love you as much as you want, say whatever you want, whenever you want. But if you're not going to prove the things you say are true, they don't say anything at all... because if you can't show it your words don't mean a thing....

speaking is not hard to do but doing the things your saying sometimes are harder to do....people often talk much but action are fewer.
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