What if

[wantingmore]

What if your boyfriend find another woman? Later he found out they are not meant for each other? Then later on decided to go back to you? Will there be a chance for you to accept him?

[DavidM]

Wow hard question. I just really don't know what I would do in that situation.

[crisipicada]

I do not know if I am in this case so hard.

Well, well, well. You have given your heart to that other woman. Is there still love left for your first girlfriend? Are you committed to her for the second time?

If i am in this case, I would pray hard to the Lord. Maybe you are the one then. And also, trust the Lord that He will work out everything.

[Edwin]

That is a really hard one. The young lady and young gentleman are together as a couple; girlfriend and boyfriend. The boyfriend found another lady and left the first girlfriend to be with the second one. Things did not work out so well. They did not get along, or he was not as thrilled with her as he thought he would be. Maybe he realized that his first girlfriend was a much better person, or better suited to him. He realized that he made a mistake, and now he has to persuade his first girlfriend that she is the only girl for him, and he thinks that they are a perfect couple. If you were in that situation and you were the girl, would you take the boy back and continue the romance?

[red]

in my past experiences, i didnt give second chance, because it was hard to trust 100 percent again plus i moved on easily. lots of men why go back same man when u can find better man.

[Edwin]

Red, so the man said to the girl, I have tried this other girl, and she doesn't hold a candle to you. I want you back, and I think we are a perfect couple. I didn't know what I had with you until I tried this other girl, and now I know that you are the best! I don't think I can live without you! Do I sound persuasive? Okay, I know what you mean, Red, I think if the man left the lady for another lady then the confidence and trust would be broken, and if he would do it once, would he do it again? What if another lady caught his eye, would he go after her too, and then later when he got tired of her, would he be back for a second round, or third round with the first? Carol worked with a lady who is in this same situation, and she would take him back in a minute. They were married for many years, and have grown and married children. He found another, and he is still taken with her, I guess. I don't understand it myself, but she is devestated and just wants him back however she could get him back. It was love on her part, but he found another, and it is sad!

[red]

when youre married its different situation. love for each other has been tested thru the years thru thick and thin. and more so when you have grown up kids. i would understand that woman. esp you asked that husband from God guess it deserves second chance. if i were her i would fight for that man because he is mine. he hbas my name tugging around his neck. lol

[Edwin]

You are right, Red, about her needing to fight for him. She is still hoping the way she talked with us. It is sad, as a fellow Assembly of God minister whom we know well performed their wedding vows. I bought gasoline for a service station that his mother and father ran years ago. The daughter went to school with our kids, and they lived just blocks from our house. It was a shock for us to even here it, and she told us that she still loved him, and would take him back in a minute. So I hope that the Lord gets hold us him, and that he comes running back to her!

[red]

guess its checking time. she needs to know why he falls to another woman. married couple should keep fire burning. dont stay to one level just because you love each other and comfy to what u have and accostumed to. beware temptations around us. be smart alert and keep on exploring each other. develop some hobby together. etc . i guess thats just trial. will pray for her. i have great compassion for married women who are cheated by husband. thats sad.

[Edwin]

Yes, thank you Red, and I know she will appreciate the prayer. Not only were we close to them in many ways, but Carol worked with her in a Pharmacy for 10 years, and worked with her daughter as well, and our kids went to school with the daughter. Yes it is sad, and thank you for the prayers for her!